My 20-year-old cousin, who’s in college, got married because his partner became pregnant. I think his partner is probably a student too.
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When I heard, I wondered how someone as serious and responsible as my cousin could have let that happen, but at the same time, I also felt jealous.
He’s been privately educated since kindergarten and grew up as an elite, so I couldn’t help wondering, “Why?”
I’ve never even had a boyfriend. I’ve only had one-night stands, so I can’t help feeling envious.
I know this is jealousy, but can you understand how I feel?
He may be serious and inexperienced with women, making him an easy target because he has a lot going for him—and she might be saying things like, “It’s okay to finish inside.” But because he’s serious, I think he wouldn’t run away or pressure her to get an abortion; he’d marry her instead.
I don’t really understand your feelings, but it’s honestly kind of amazing that you’ve never had a boyfriend yet have had so many one-night stands.
Marika
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Even though both involve being intimate, a one-night stand and being okay with having a child together are completely different.
Are you referring to those romantic feelings?
It can also be the happiest, most love-filled moment. As for my cousin…
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Thank you for your question. I’ll answer as Maezawa as well.
From this post alone, I can’t really tell what you’re envious of in the first place. Are you envious because your cousin got his girlfriend pregnant?
If so, since you’re a woman, you can’t get someone else pregnant. Are you envious because he did something you can’t?
Or are you envious that he got married?
If you feel envious, perhaps you should get married yourself.
Why do you think you’ve never had a boyfriend?
I think it would be a good idea to start by looking into the reason. Once you understand the cause, you may be able to do something about it, and I believe you’ll be able to get married too.
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Of course I don’t understand.
Why? Because understanding someone’s feelings isn’t that easy, and sometimes it’s presumptuous to think you do.
But what I find hardest to understand is why you’re asking this question. Your twenties are the time to lay the groundwork for your future—you shouldn’t even have time to feel envious.
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