Thank you for the question. I’ll answer as Maezawa as well.
I once saw a really impressive staff member who had strong matching skills. When a virgin woman came in for an interview, they looked for a man who would offer a generous initial allowance and continue seeing her beyond the first meeting, then arranged the match for her.
Of course, she may simply have been a rare case—a virgin woman who was in the top “black” tier.
> What would you think if a woman asked, “Since I’m a virgin, could I receive a little extra allowance just for the first time?”
Men who aren’t specifically interested in virgins may feel that they wouldn’t enjoy being with one as much in the first place. Some might even say they wouldn’t have made an offer if they had known.
So even if she tells them after they meet that she’s a virgin, it probably won’t mean much to men who don’t place any value on that. That said, if she’s someone they genuinely want to continue seeing as a person, some men might be willing to increase the allowance a little as a kind of congratulatory gift. Still, I think that’s unlikely.
For that reason, I think it’s better to tell the staff during the interview that you have no experience. Apparently, some staff assume it might be a lie and don’t take it particularly seriously, but there are also staff members who will be understanding and supportive.
Either way, it will usually be mentioned casually in your profile. (Some staff phrase it vaguely so that you won’t attract offers from men who are obsessed with virgins.) Men who like virgins will see that and make offers.
In that case, saying, “Since I’m a virgin, could I receive a little extra allowance just for the first time?” may work. However, it doesn’t give the impression that you have much money to spare, so I feel the amount would probably be about the same as what a typical top-tier woman receives. I hear the pay-per-meeting allowance for women in the black tier is often around ¥100,000–¥200,000.
By the way, the above is based on how things work in Tokyo, so I’m not referring to Mac-san. I think most of the other answerers know that Mac-san is an amazing person.
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> I could also offer ¥50,000 for each time there was penetration.
> After I wrote that, I actually received a counteroffer saying, “I’ll do my best,” so maybe it’s a proposal that works more often than you’d expect.
Thinking about it, if there were ten partners that day, you’d receive ¥500,000 in a single day, right? In that case, I can understand why someone might feel motivated to go for it.
The allowance doesn’t change.
These days, if she’s a virgin, I’m less likely to make an offer. I feel there’s less reason to do so since I probably wouldn’t need to renew the arrangement next time—and even less so if she’s a virgin.
If I found out she was a virgin, I wouldn’t make an offer.
If she asked for extra allowance because she was a virgin, I’d think it sounded a bit like a “virgin scam” and tell her, “Why don’t you ask a man who’s really into virgins?” Personally, I wouldn’t even enter into negotiations.
That timing is incredible—right on the dot! Did you plan it that way??
Anyway, I’ll answer your question based on my personal perspective.
An allowance isn’t a woman’s price tag, so I wouldn’t increase it just because she’s a virgin, and I wouldn’t reduce it even if she had facial scars from a traffic accident. If she’s not my type, I simply won’t meet her, so it’s less about deciding the allowance amount and more about whether I want to meet her at all.
That said, I know some people put a premium on virgins, and I understand that some women try to sell themselves for more because of it. Once, a woman I had made an offer to told me she was a virgin, and I braced myself, wondering if she was going to ask for extra.
In the end, she didn’t ask for anything extra. But when we actually tried to get intimate, she tensed her inner thigh muscles so much that we couldn’t, and I still gave her the allowance. So, in the end, that one meeting effectively became a premium-priced one.
If you want to take the easy route, you could make a reverse offer to one of the respondents here who’s into that sort of thing. His username is Mos Burger.
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