I’m a 68-year-old man’s partner, but he says he’s not as vigorous as he used to be. He loses his erection and slips out, so he finishes within a few minutes and can’t see the look on my face when I’m enjoying myself. That’s why he wants to use a vibrator.

If you’re already exhausted just from being licked, once vibrators or electric massagers get involved, you’ll be completely worn out and unable to get out of bed. If you don’t like it, say so. If you have to take paid leave the next day, the allowance won’t be worth it. No matter how much you like the man, what will you do at your age if you take too much time off and end up having to quit your job? Well-paying jobs often favor hiring people who are young, attractive, and capable. When I was involved in hiring, I was actually told to bring in attractive, competent candidates for interviews. You’re not getting any younger, so you should focus on your job. I’ve also been licked for a long time before, and he went at it so much that his face ended up covered in blood. Afterward, it stung whenever I used the bathroom, and it was awful. Questioner, don’t you bleed when you’re licked all night? And what about this? “Sometimes he caresses every inch of my body all night. My breasts are large, and my legs and ankles are very slender. My proportions are perfect.” Did a man really say this? The wording is a little strange. Be honest with him and tell him that sometimes you have to take paid leave the next day, and that it’s difficult because you’re not young anymore. Of course, vibrators make it even harder, so tell him you can’t do that either. If he can’t accept it, say goodbye.