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Aug 19, 2023 02:30
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I’m currently set to B1, but men often invite me to an adult relationship from the second meeting onward. So I’m wondering whether I should switch to B2.
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
The fact that you’re asking this probably means you want to receive more offers.
In your case, I don’t think there’s any problem with moving up to B2.
That said, with B2, people tend to make their decision after just one date.
If you then say you’d like to have another dinner date, some people may accuse you of misrepresenting your terms.
From my experience making inquiries, B2 definitely seems to attract more offers than B1.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Thanks for your question. I’ll answer as well.
If you’re willing—or would like—to pursue an adult relationship (intimate) from the second date onward, then you’re essentially B2.
I don’t know the numbers since things were divided into B1 and B2, but even B1 members may receive offers if they’re someone’s type, so I’m not sure the difference is really that significant.
That said, based on what you’ve described, you’re B2, so I think you should change your profile to B2.
If you base your decision on whether it will increase the number of offers, you may end up forcing yourself or being dishonest. It would be better to choose based on what type of relationship you genuinely want, rather than on the number of offers.
You should also be able to write your own comment, so you could say something like:
“I initially chose B1 because I wasn’t sure how things worked, but after going on a date, I realized that I’d be comfortable becoming intimate on the second date, so I changed to B2. I look forward to meeting you.”
That way, men will understand why you changed it. I think there was also a section where you could explain the reason for changing your relationship type, but it would be a good idea to include it in your own comments as well.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Since changing it is unlikely to lead to better results,
if you’re currently receiving offers as a B1, I think it’s probably better not to change it. Switching from B1 to B2 doesn’t necessarily increase your chances of getting more offers—in fact, you might stop getting any at all. If that happens, your only options would be to switch to C or go back to B1, which could leave you changing it over and over.
Staying with B1 and having an adult relationship (intimate) on the second meeting isn’t necessarily a bad option either, and I think it may increase the chances of continuing the arrangement.
👨 Male
Universe member
Whether you change your dating type or leave it as is, you should do whatever feels right for you.
The main thing is to avoid saying “adult relationship (intimate) is okay!” and then backing out partway through. As long as you don’t do that, I don’t think it will be a particular problem.
If you choose B2, male members will probably assume that you’re more open to an adult relationship (intimate).