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Aug 17, 2023 17:16
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I’m 167 cm and 53 kg, and I don’t think I’m unattractive.
I’m registered as dating type C.
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しろうさ
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
“Shirousa” will share their personal take.
How long has it been since you registered?
I assume your profile hasn’t been left unpublished, so perhaps:
- You’ve only just registered, and only some top-tier members can view your profile.
- Your looks and persona are so appealing that you’ve been classified as high-class, meaning Platinum members can’t make offers.
- You’re listed at a special price, making you seem out of reach.
There’s nothing you can do about the above.
Do you smile in your video?
Is your way of speaking gentle and composed? Do you avoid dragging out the ends of your sentences or speaking with an oddly questioning tone?
Sometimes, an over-the-top persona can make you seem like you’re from another dimension.
It seems that tattoos, tongue piercings, and braces may also make some people hesitate.
Have you posted heavily edited selfies? There’s a reason photos taken at the club aren’t edited at all.
Do you say things like, “My monthly goal is ¥500,000!”?
Did you go to your interview wearing designer clothes or carrying a luxury-brand bag?
People might assume you have expensive tastes.
For now, try sending a message saying, “You look wonderful.”
Are you registered with PATOLO as well?
Since you can chat on PATOLO, send plenty of messages and make yourself known!
If you message me, I’ll give it proper consideration and reply.
I hope you meet a wonderful man.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
From the way this post comes across, I think she’s acting out of desperation.
Why did she ever think there would be men willing to pay a matching fee just to meet someone like this?
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
What could be the reason?
- You’re actually unattractive
- You’re not sexy enough
- You seem unapproachable
- You look expensive to date
- You lack a clean, well-groomed appearance
If you’re adamant that you’re not unattractive, you probably won’t be able to identify what needs improving. Take an objective look at your appearance, figure out what’s lacking, and work on it.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Thank you for your question.
Maezawa here.
I’d say around 30% of women don’t receive offers even though they aren’t unattractive.
An average-looking woman usually wouldn’t have trouble finding a boyfriend, and probably wouldn’t be called unattractive either. However, once she registers with a dating club, she’s competing with many more impressive women, so relatively speaking, she may seem below average.
That said, she’s still average by everyday standards, so presenting herself well can increase her chances of receiving offers.
In short, it comes down to whether she can make a man think, “I’d like to meet her.”
You can write a comment about yourself when you log in, so I recommend adding one there.
Also, although it seems that more men these days don’t pay much attention to the “She’s lovely” option, some may still take an interest if you send a message along with it.
Sometimes people are drawn in by someone’s writing, so it’s worth giving it your best shot.