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Aug 15, 2023 00:44
5 answers
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I think once a month is best. In most cases, if you meet as often as four times a month, they’ll get bored quickly. It tends to last longer if you leave them wanting more.
Other
Whether it’s a papa (a male supporter) you see four times a month or one you see once a month, it can last a long time as long as both of you are happy with the arrangement.
Aside from one papa (a male supporter) I see four times a month, I generally see the others about once a month, and all of those arrangements have lasted for years.
Marika
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If you meet four or more times a month—ideally three or more times a week—the arrangement can continue for an almost indefinite amount of time.
Meeting once a month is also easy to maintain, but it’s really just seeing each other occasionally, with no guarantee it won’t end at any time, so I wouldn’t call it a relationship.
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think there’s one clear-cut answer.
That said, in my opinion, the money spent on dating comes out of one’s personal funds, so if the amount spent on one woman becomes too high, it may become difficult to continue the relationship.
Also, I don’t think it’s ideal if too much time passes between meetings.
Since this is a relationship between a man and a woman, I think things naturally settle into a comfortable balance based on what works for both people.
Other
Monthly arrangements tend to last surprisingly well. Even if your personalities don’t click or you run out of things to talk about, as long as there’s something you like about each other, they can continue somehow—and may turn out to be quite comfortable.
A woman you genuinely enjoy seeing four times a month is the best. If you happen to meet someone like that, she might make you leave the once-a-month crowd behind.
But that kind of person is rare. Seeing someone you don’t click with four times a month becomes a burden, so you gradually stop meeting（笑）
From the woman’s perspective, if the man seems very eager, it may be worth aiming for four meetings a month. But if he doesn’t seem that interested, it’s wiser to stick to once a month and aim for a long-term arrangement.
In the Birdman Contest, the contestants who fly the longest usually skim just above the surface of the water, right? I think it has the same effect physically.
Taro