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A question for men who have had a monthly arrangement lasting over a year: What made you keep it going for so long? Please tell me why.

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バジル
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
She simply hasn’t found anyone with better terms than mine.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
After everything I’ve experienced, I feel like arrangements tend to last longer when she: - Has a clean, well-groomed appearance and makes an effort to take care of herself - Has a cute personality and doesn’t make it feel too transactional - Responds quickly on LINE - Is open to an adult relationship (intimate) - Is compatible in that regard (for example, enjoys being intimate from behind) That’s just my personal impression, though.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It’s strange when it doesn’t last a full year. Even romantic relationships can last for years, so when both people understand that there’s an allowance involved, there’s no reason to drift apart.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It all comes down to whether we enjoy talking to each other. As the relationship continues, there are fewer secrets about each other’s personal lives. I also like being able to feel that I’m their number one—or their only one.
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Not a single woman I’ve been seeing for over a year is someone I had to put in so much effort for that people would ask, “Why go that far?” We simply met, had a good time, and kept seeing each other because we wanted to meet again. We’ve had arguments along the way, but with the right person, things still continue... I think the idea is good, but this approach may not be the best way to get the answer you’re looking for. Taro
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For me, the most important thing is being able to see someone comfortably, without having to worry about being identified or about health risks. Fortunately, the woman I’m seeing doesn’t seem interested in having a boyfriend or anything like that either. Being beautiful or having amazing chemistry isn’t particularly important to me. We’ve been seeing each other for five years now, and she’s practically become like a younger sister to me. I don’t think she needs financial support anymore, but I’ve decided to continue until she tells me, “I want to stop now.”
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t think of it as having “kept” a monthly arrangement going for over a year. Words may seem like a minor detail, but I believe a person’s way of thinking shows through in things like that. I have four partners I’ve been seeing for over a year, and I think we’ve been able to continue seeing each other because we’re all reasonably good for one another.
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