What reasons do people usually give for doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? What’s the most common one?
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When a papa (a male supporter) asks me, I feel like I need to give some kind of reason, so I’ve just been saying it’s for tuition. What’s the safest, most unremarkable answer?
Would it be better to say I want to start a business after I graduate or change jobs? I feel like a common, low-key reason that won’t attract attention would be best.
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I’ve never heard of anything like that.
The club asks about it in the video, so that’s enough for me.
When you’ve been seeing someone for a long time, you’re free to use the allowance however you like—invest it and make a decent return, start a business, or build a venture that generates enough profit that you no longer need an allowance.
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I think it’s best to be honest about why you’re doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). If it’s the truth, you won’t have to worry about your story contradicting itself later.
Personally, I’d rather hear the real reason than some ordinary, forgettable excuse. Is the truth something you can’t say—or is it so bad that you’re afraid they’ll dislike you if you tell them?
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I think it’s best to be honest and say that you want extra money to spend, enjoy some luxuries, build up your savings, or whatever the real reason is, so you don’t contradict yourself later. Though those reasons are pretty commonplace too.
Some women say they want to start a business during the first meeting, but after talking with them for a bit, it’s obvious that’s just a made-up excuse.
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You may need to be comfortable with your own reasons for doing papa-katsu, but I don’t see why you need to explain them to anyone else.
If you really want an answer, why not just say, “I take my panties off for [whatever]”?
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