I’m a female member. After agreeing on an allowance, what’s the right thing to do if he asks for a second round afterward? Should I clearly tell him I can’t, even if it ruins the mood? I’d appreciate your advice…

Maezawa here. Since this is a matter of free choice in dating, there’s no single right answer, but I’d suggest thinking about it this way: What would you do if a romantic partner—not a papa (a male supporter)—asked to see you a second time? If you would firmly turn down even a romantic partner, then you don’t need to force yourself—just say no. But if you would accept it from a partner, men are happy when you respond in the same way. Even if you receive an allowance, men appreciate being treated in the same way. In this case, from the man’s perspective, I think he probably doesn’t want things limited by the number of times or the amount of time. If you agree, he’ll likely think more highly of you, which could lead to a long-term arrangement. That said, if you force yourself, your motivation may drop next time, so gently declining is also an option. How about saying something like: “You were just too amazing… I don’t think I have the stamina anymore…”

I’m Saito, a column writer♪ Twice, huh… If you’re not into it, I think it’s perfectly fine to just say no. Unlike Nonta, once is enough for me. LOL I can’t do it twice with the same woman. The moment a woman asks me to meet again, I start thinking, “What a hassle,” and end things from then on. Everyone’s different—men, women, and life itself.