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Aug 3, 2023 21:44
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Age: 50s
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If the weather is so severe—heavy snow or a typhoon—that public transportation isn’t running, the date will probably be canceled, since even the club staff and restaurant employees won’t be able to get to work. In that case, I don’t think there would be any penalty, but it could be different if the weather is still manageable enough for people to get around.
For an auto-date through PATOLO, as long as both parties agree via chat, rescheduling won’t incur a penalty.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
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Just to be clear, this isn’t a situation where you’re thinking, “The trains are disrupted because of the typhoon today, so maybe I’ll ask to reschedule,” right?
Most men have already made reservations at restaurants.
First, consider whether you truly can’t reach the meeting place, even by taking alternate routes or using other transportation.
If the man is also unable to make it, then naturally there shouldn’t be any penalty.
That said, the penalty for canceling at the last minute on a first meeting is quite severe.
One woman who canceled shortly beforehand because she suspected she had COVID-19 (in the end, she just had a high fever…) came very close to being forcibly removed from the service.
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If there’s a reasonable explanation like that, I don’t think there would be any penalty.
That said, if you can foresee something like this happening, I think it’s better to let them know in advance rather than at the last minute.