Are there any women in the Black class who have been able to maintain a long-term arrangement?

Both women who are now entering their fourth-and-a-half year were in the Black class at the time. From the women’s perspective, one was probably offered a meeting right after joining, while the other received hers more than a year after joining. I think both relationships have become mutually fulfilling. They’ll probably continue for life, even after the papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) ends. All three women I dated in my thirties are still in my life, and my romantic relationships have lasted an average of more than 20 years. So I think relationships with women from the club can last even longer than romantic ones. Romantic relationships may begin without considering physical compatibility, but with club women, you choose based not only on appearance and chemistry, but also on physical compatibility. And since there’s even the “cheat code” of an allowance, I think it’s possible for both sides to keep feeling satisfied and happy. That said, at a club, men can choose from as many women as they want. So I think the same applies to women in the Black class: they can choose from as many men as they want. Even after a year, the offers don’t run out, and they can choose from dozens of them. Women are probably also very sensitive to whether a man gets bored easily and whether he’s genuinely interested in them. If you treat her sincerely, and can also give her an allowance, then as long as her needs are being met in ways beyond the allowance, I don’t think she’ll have much reason to leave.

Women who stay in long-term arrangements generally seem to be more likely to have already left the club. Maybe they feel, “I guess this is just how it is,” or perhaps they think what they have is good enough. Come to think of it, my partner isn’t a Black member either, but she has already left the club. I don’t think she was active for even six months, though she may have simply given up, thinking, “Is this really all there is?” (lol)

I’ve been with my papa for seven years—going into my fifth year on this site—but I’ve already left, so this may not be very helpful as a reference. He lets me enjoy every day.

What difference would it make if there were one? I’m entering my fourth year of dating a woman who used to be in the Black class. She’s “former” because she has since left the club.

Now that you mention it, that’s definitely true. In my case, I’d say three years at most. The so-called professional papa-katsu women usually stop at the Platinum level, while the girls who get lots of offers on Black apparently receive outrageous terms from top players nationwide. They’re also extremely popular in their private lives, so at some point they tend to move on to the next stage. If you seriously want to keep one by your side, I feel like you’d either have to marry her or have at least ¥200 million prepared as a nest egg, in addition to having a genuine emotional connection. It’s no longer a battle over ¥50,000, ¥100,000, or ¥300,000. Actually, the moment you treat it like a battle, you’ve already lost. Her combat power is definitely higher. If she happens to feel like staying by your side, I guess all you can do is consider yourself lucky for however long it lasts. P.S. As expected, Kazu—you really know your stuff. If I had to point out the difference between us, maybe it’s because I enjoy helping college girls and others grow, so there’s more change and development in the women I’m involved with than with you, Kazu, who prefers the finished product?

Popular women have plenty of men interested in them, so it’s hard to keep standing out from the competition.