The smell issue is a serious one, isn’t it?
I’ve heard that certain STIs can cause a cheesy, rotten smell, so in that case it might be worth pointing it out. If it’s a sharp, animal-like odor that hits your nose, though, I feel it’s usually just strong body odor. There was one woman who gave off a smell like plastic, and I actually suspected she might be a cyborg. But she was a flesh-and-blood human, and after a few years the smell disappeared. I also met a woman who smelled like lotus root, and that one remains a mystery to this day. Strong, unpleasant odors are tough enough, but it can also be confusing when someone gives off a strangely appetizing smell, like simmered chicken and vegetables.
When someone simply has strong body odor, I recommend the close-contact missionary position. Since smells rise, positions like from behind or sitting, where you place your nose directly above the relevant area, are risky. That said, I think there are proactive ways to deal with it instead of constantly trying to escape. In other words, bury your nose in the source of the smell and acclimate yourself to it. If you’re going to swallow poison, finish the dish; if you don’t enter the tiger’s den, you’ll never get the cub. I couldn’t bring myself to do it, fearing I might end up an orphan, but if you’re brave enough, I’d love for you to go all in, create a legend, and proudly tell the tale. And even if it kills you, you’ll become a lay Buddhist and be enshrined at some ancient temple, so everything will be fine.
Taro
In my limited experience, a certain percentage of them do smell. Personally, I don’t think there’s any particular reason—it’s just one of those things.
If I may, I think there’s one point in the questioner’s wording that’s off: “because I thought it would hurt their feelings.” To put it bluntly, that’s nothing more than an excuse to avoid getting hurt or disliked yourself. Telling someone, “You smell,” can be far more helpful to them.
I’ve told people “You smell” about three times in the past, and all I’ve ever gotten in return was gratitude. I suppose it must be the difference in personal virtue. Just kidding.
If you penetrate her without a condom and then have her give you a blowjob, she might notice the smell.
If she realizes something’s wrong and sees a doctor, she might be able to get it treated—assuming it’s curable.
Good luck.
