Just as I was starting to gain weight while trying to overcome binge-purge disorder, my papa told me I should lose weight.
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Going back to that hell would be painful, but should I go back anyway? My papa is a doctor, so I’m wondering whether I should talk to him about it, but wouldn’t he just find it burdensome if I confessed?
I don’t want to work just to earn money for food. I tried so hard to quit, but I’m still no good.
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That doctor papa sounds incredibly rude.
I feel like there’s no point opening up to a man who’s that insensitive, so why not choose someone who seems a little kinder and try telling him instead? Of course, there is a risk he may distance himself.
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Just because he’s a doctor doesn’t necessarily mean he’ll understand.
Whether it works in your favor or against you ultimately depends on the man himself.
Only you can judge what kind of man he really is.
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If it were me, I’d probably come clean fairly early on.
This may be a little different, but here’s what happened in my case.
When I first met my current papa (a male supporter), I was taking psychiatric medication and sleeping pills every time I stayed over. I finally worked up the courage to tell him, and he kindly said, “Let’s work toward getting you to the point where you won’t need to take those anymore.”
As I’ve mentioned before, I was gradually able to overcome my dependence on the psychiatric medication. Opening up about my vulnerability actually brought us closer.
I told the papa (a male supporter) because I felt he was someone who wouldn’t run away after hearing something like that. So, questioner, take a good look at the other person and decide whether or not to come out to them.
Of course, there’s always a chance they may walk away.
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I don’t think you should leave decisions like whether to go back to someone up to other people. Besides, strangers who know neither you nor the other person have no way of knowing the answer.
Hearing from women I regularly enjoy spending time with isn’t a drag, but rambling thoughts that barely even qualify as questions for the Q&A box are.
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