I’m the person who asked the question earlier.

It looks like you posted several questions earlier today, but I’ll focus on answering just this one without reading them. You have quite a long history in the adult entertainment industry. Be careful not to accidentally count men as “one, two…” using the counter for sessions. Also, a first dinner is two hours, not 120 minutes. Things like that can easily give you away, so you should probably watch out. It seems you’re getting a decent number of offers, but getting offers of only 3–5 is unusually unlucky. It’s a misconception that the allowance offered reflects a woman’s value. Most men make offers based on their own standards—some simply offer more, while others offer less. In other words, you must be resonating extremely strongly with the low-paying crowd. I get the feeling that the staff who interviewed you have already seen through the fact that you’re an adult entertainer who came to the dating club as a side gig. It may also be showing through in your profile. No matter how good a woman’s credentials are, some women still give off a “she’s only here for that” vibe—almost like they’re very experienced at this. When they asked about your monthly target during the interview, did you say 1 million yen? Or you could write something like, “The allowance is important to me, but I won’t make you regret choosing me!” Normally, that should act as a filter. If men still flock to you offering only 30,000 yen, then maybe you should just accept that it’s your fate. Go back to your初心 when you debuted at a mainstream establishment and work hard doing seven or eight sessions a day. Even with a low rate, you should be able to reach your target. Managing the schedule will be difficult, so you could enable online bookings through something like Hot Pepper. Maybe it’s time to take a hard look at reality and seriously consider how best to deal with it. Taro

That’s completely the mindset of someone in the adult-entertainment industry... Why worry about how much other people are aiming to make? Normally, you try it and see whether you end up making 100,000 yen, 20,000–30,000 yen, or 50,000 yen—you can’t know in advance. Having a specific target amount from the outset isn’t exactly something a beginner would do.

If you have a normal sense of money, I think a reasonable target is 200,000 to 500,000 yen.

Things like “specs” and repeat rates are very much part of the sex industry. Universe Club isn’t a prostitution club, so even if you offer ¥30,000 or ¥50,000, they may be less inclined to want to keep seeing you regularly. That’s because if a papa simply wants that kind of experience, it’s quicker and less hassle to go to a sex-service establishment. Some papas may just be testing the waters at first. Once you build trust, you might find someone who’s willing to readily support you with the money you need. Try having a relationship with genuine feeling. If that sounds like too much effort, a sex-service establishment may be a better fit.

First of all, it sounds pretty tough. At the same time, I couldn’t help thinking, “You can’t just call everything a ‘two-way player’! Apologize to Ohtani already!” I feel like your twenties are a time to lay the groundwork for your future. I’m not against saving or cutting back, but I hope you can find ways to spend your money wisely for your own sake. I don’t know why you need a million yen every month, but I can’t help worrying that fixating on the amount might make things even harder for you. Just my two cents, though.

I think it’s just painfully obvious to men how shallow you are when you ask questions like this. Personally, as long as a sex worker knows how to handle my dick, that’s enough—I don’t expect any depth from her. But the substance of someone I’m dating matters to me. Everyone’s target amount is going to be different.