Tips Jul 26, 2023 15:57

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For women who only see papas (male supporters) who give 50,000 yen or more, about how many are they usually seeing at the same time? Unless you meet a generous (well-paying) papa, I feel like the only way to increase your income is to increase the number of papas you see. But are there really that many men who can give 50,000 yen or more, in proportion to their disposable income? I’m a second-year working professional, fresh out of college. Working at a hostess club or similar place after my regular job would be too exhausting, so I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I registered with both a dating club and some apps. It’s not like every man offers 30,000 yen. There are definitely men who offer 100,000, 50,000, or 40,000 yen. I think 50,000 yen is fairly common at dating clubs, but since 30,000 yen is the going rate on apps, some men tried to talk me into accepting 30,000 yen. While continuing my daytime job, I’m aiming to meet one person almost every night and earn 1 million yen a month. The reason is that I did compensated dating of a different kind while I was a student, and my standard of living went up. I’m considered high-end lounge-hostess level in terms of appearance. It wouldn’t be possible to reach 1 million yen a month by seeing only men who give 50,000 yen or more. I think the pool of men who can give 50,000 yen or more is very small relative to their disposable income. I don’t meet men who offer 15,000 or 20,000 yen, since I only meet one person a day. But I’ve continued meeting people who come my way unless there was a serious problem, so I’ve started to get a realistic picture of things. By far, 30,000 yen is the most common budget, and there seems to be an abundance of men offering that amount. I think most women probably won’t meet anyone offering less than 50,000 yen, but wouldn’t that make it difficult to save much money? (Excluding the exceptional women who are incredibly successful.) There may be more men offering 50,000 yen or more at dating clubs, but overall, they’re still very few. There are already more women than men at dating clubs, and even when there are men offering 50,000 yen or more, everyone competes for them. Doesn’t that mean there are relatively few men per woman? (I mean in the sense that your schedule would be completely booked on every day you’re available.) Of course, I’m sure there are very popular women who have a queue of men offering 50,000 yen or more. But I’m asking about the overall situation, relative to men’s disposable income. If you’re prepared to have an adult relationship (intimate), it’s only natural to want to save as much money as possible, right? Among women who only see men offering 50,000 yen or more, how many are typically sharing the same men? My guess is that unless they have a generous (well-paying) papa, there aren’t many arrangements that continue at 50,000 yen or more, and the total income isn’t that high either. What do you think?
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If you don’t want to lower your lifestyle supported by ¥1 million a month, I think you should focus on your work so you can continue earning through your own abilities. Many of the papas involved with Universe Club likely know how to make money. The quickest route may be to build a relationship of trust with someone who can guide you toward earning through your own skills.
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“If you only see papas offering ¥50,000 or more, how many do you think you can realistically juggle at once?” If you work during the day, five is probably the limit. Also, if you’re supposedly “high-end hostess level” in terms of looks, yet can’t earn ¥1 million a month even while meeting an unspecified number of men, and people on apps are only offering ¥30,000… I don’t mean to be rude, but it makes me wonder whether women in the adult-entertainment world tend to be lower-level because they’re dealing with men who are socially disadvantaged. You can’t make money through papa-katsu, let alone the adult-entertainment industry, so you should probably lower your standard of living sooner rather than later. What are you going to do when you get older? I say that out of concern.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I prefer to focus on a small number of people and build deeper relationships, so I don’t continue seeing anyone who seems to be meeting lots of others. You’re bound to catch something if you approach it like the sex industry and get intimate with anyone and everyone. Eventually, you’ll probably be left with only that kind of papa. It’s one or the other, really: either nurture a generous papa, or keep meeting lots of people. I don’t think a generous papa would see more than three women, either. You clearly have a talent for making money, so I hope you save while you’re young and aim for 100 million yen.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
In my experience, most women who work a regular job typically have around one to three papas (male supporters). Even women with flexible jobs who can be active every night, and who are highly motivated, probably have around five to eight. To put it bluntly, I think you may be suited to the sex industry, but not to a dating club. You’re simply in the wrong place, so I think you’d be better off either returning to the sex industry or accepting your current situation.
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