Is getting two offers in your first month as a woman from a rural area considered good? If that’s really the case, this must be a pretty tough world.

Maezawa here with an answer. It may indeed be a tough world, but on the other hand, some women receive six offers all at once right after joining. A woman who registers normally might get six offers by the next day and think, “Is it like this for everyone?” That doesn’t mean those men are “blacklisted” or anything.

I’m Saito, the column writer♪ It’s understandable that you might assume you’d receive lots of offers in the Tokyo metropolitan area. A local woman I’m seeing told me she gets around 20 offers a year, so perhaps that’s about the norm. You may have expected offers to come flooding in, but there are fewer than half as many male members as female members. Unless you’re exceptionally beautiful or have some other standout quality, you may end up getting lost among the competition. It might be worth reviewing everything once more to see whether there’s anything noteworthy about yourself that you forgot to mention, and then sharing it with them. P.S. One characteristic of offers for women outside major cities is that the women who receive regular offers are often genuinely exceptional. On the other hand, I feel that most women say they received lots of offers when they first joined, but that the offers stopped coming as time went by. These days, people even deceive their female friends and take a cut by telling them things like: “You can easily get money from your papa just for having tea.” “It’s basically dinner only.”