This is about what happens after I’m lucky enough to be accepted as a member. If I date a married man and his wife finds out about the relationship, I could end up having to pay compensation. Even ¥3 million would be a huge amount of money for me.
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I don’t think I’d be able to pay it, so although I may receive fewer offers, would it be possible to only see single men?
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I’m very sorry, but the club doesn’t keep records of whether male members are married.
So please clearly state in your profile that you cannot date married men:
“I’m not able to date married men.”
Even so, some married members may still make offers. Since we don’t know their real names, there’s no way for us to investigate.
You could try posting something like the following as your own message in your profile:
“My fetish is stealing other people’s partners. If I date a married man, my competitive instincts and possessive nature rise to the level of murderous intent, and I’ll want to take him away by any means necessary♪ I’ll probably be waiting for you to come home every day while handing out flyers in front of your house, so I’m looking to date unmarried men.”
If you’d rather not do that, you might want to tell them something along the lines of:
“I don’t want to get intimate until I know you’re unmarried.”
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It’s possible, but good papas all know how to handle things, so I think the chances of ending up in a situation where someone demands compensation are extremely low.
If you limit it to single men and don’t get many offers, you can always change your profile later on, too...
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There are always some strange people, whether they’re married or single, but most women say that singles are far more likely to be problematic—and the problems tend to be more serious—whether you meet them through a club or an app.
I’ve also heard that quite a few people are looking for someone to date without offering an allowance.
At this point, I think what you consider a risk is up to you.
Good luck.
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It may be possible, but considering the odds, I think you’re worrying more than necessary.
For starters, you simply don’t have to ask. Apparently, one requirement is that you engage in infidelity knowing the other person is married, so if you genuinely didn’t know, it wouldn’t apply in the first place.
Also, if that happened frequently, dating clubs couldn’t survive as a business. The fact that they operate without being limited to single people means the likelihood is low.
Frankly, the odds of getting registered but never receiving an offer are clearly much higher.
You might even be more likely to encounter a crime or accident while walking around town, or to have some complicated illness discovered during a health checkup.
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I’m Shirousa, a new responder.
Men aren’t asked whether they’re married during the screening process, so you won’t know when you receive an offer either.
Write “Please don’t send offers from married men” in your profile, then take a screenshot and keep it as evidence.
You won’t be able to tell whether he’s married during the actual date, but that should help establish that you didn’t know he was married.
Just to be safe, it’s also a good idea to ask him verbally during the first date and record his answer with a voice memo.
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I believe it was possible.
I think more than half of the members of the dating clubs were single as well.
Well, when you think about it, that makes sense.
Also, considering the offers themselves, it’s understandable that there would be more single members and older ones than married members.
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I think that’s possible.
However, single men are free to find romantic partners, so they don’t necessarily need to rely on dating clubs involving money. My impression is that married men make up a significant proportion of those who do.
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