I’m a female member who just joined Universe Club yesterday.
Thankfully, four people have added me to their favorites over the past two days. However, since I only just registered and didn’t know what to do, I replied with “You seem wonderful” without adding any comments.
Looking back, I’m worried that replying without a comment may have come across as a little rude, or that I seemed too passive.
I have no experience with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I’m feeling a little overwhelmed and don’t know what I’m doing. I’d really appreciate any opinions or advice. m(_ _)m
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It’s just a favorite, not an offer.
For now, as a courtesy, you should at least send something like, “Thanks for adding me to your favorites.”
Also, it seems quite a few women in their 20s and 30s—the most popular age range—don’t receive a single offer. Unless you can think and act for yourself, even if you do get an offer, it may end up being a one-time thing.
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Just my impression, but four people in two days seems pretty low, so it might be tough if you’re too passive.
One girl did send her application again about a month later, so next time, I think it’d be better to include a comment.
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I’m Shirousa, one of the male respondents.
If you’d be open to receiving an offer from him, simply clicking “Sounds great” should be enough. If you don’t want him to contact you, just leave it alone without clicking.
If you’re thinking, “I’d really like to go on a date with him!” you could write in your message: “Thanks for the like. I just registered, but I’d love to go on a date with you.”
In fact, that’s how it worked out for me: “Favorites” → “Sounds great with a message” → he made an offer, and it developed into a relationship.
Hope you find a good papa (a male supporter).
Good luck!
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There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.
Since you’ve only just joined, that’s pretty much how it goes. Honestly, I’d be more worried if they left some overly familiar comment.
It’s only been two days, and I’m sure they’re perfectly happy with that.
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