Tips Jul 19, 2023 14:27

Do men care about a woman’s occupation?

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Whenever I mention on dating apps or at matching bars that I’m a part-timer, men seem to drift away. They also don’t like me without makeup, and indirectly tell me I should wear some. I’m actually in the entertainment industry, but since I don’t have an income, I say I’m a part-timer. And then the men pull away. I’m planning to get a part-time job, but it’s really shaken my confidence. Why do you think that is?
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しろうさ
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Shiro Usagi, one of the newer answerers. I don’t judge people by their jobs, so I’m happy to make an offer regardless. Of course, some people have impressive careers, and it can be interesting to hear about them. On the other hand, even someone unemployed can be fun to talk to if they have interesting experiences and stories to share. So, the question is: why would it be a problem? They may assume you’re short-tempered and tend to change jobs frequently, get bored easily, or simply have no desire to work. They might even wonder if you’re just looking for someone to mooch off. For now, I think it would be good to emphasize that you’re gaining all kinds of experiences and turning them into valuable life lessons, then share those stories in an engaging way. It’s also a shame that you don’t wear makeup. Maybe people see it as being careless. Since women generally wear makeup because they want to look cute, men might take it as, “Are you making fun of me?” I don’t think you need to overdo it, but even something simple would probably help. Of course, if your attitude is, “You can’t judge me by my job or whether I wear makeup. Face me honestly and judge me for who I am!” then that’s a different story. Just keep in mind that you may not receive any offers here, and there’s a chance you won’t be selected. Good luck!
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It goes without saying, right? People will walk away from someone who wastes their time with unnecessary questions.
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Get a job first. Then we’ll talk.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Everyone has different things they look for in a woman, but when I choose someone to make an offer to, I go by her occupation. You can guess what you might have in common with someone from her hobbies or job, but very few women list genuinely interesting hobbies in their profiles. I think men lose interest when a woman reveals that she’s a freelancer or between jobs because it makes her seem like she has no substance. If she has no income, then it isn’t really a viable career, so I don’t think she should call herself part of the entertainment industry. Even if she does, it will quickly become obvious that she’s only claiming to be in entertainment once she explains what she actually does. As for women being disliked without makeup, I think it’s because, while socially aware women generally wear makeup, you come across as lazy for not doing so. It’s probably similar to how men who haven’t showered or don’t take care of their appearance aren’t very well-liked.
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