It’s exhausting when they get the wrong idea even though I’m only being nice for the money. I went back to working in the adult entertainment industry.
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papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) just isn’t for me.
I think being good at papa-katsu means successfully leading them to misunderstand and getting money from them—is that really so bad?
If working in the sex industry suits you better, that’s fine too.
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Everyone’s different, so it’s hard to say, but some women I’m dating say papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) isn’t so bad. Maybe it just wasn’t right for you.
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Many women probably find it emotionally difficult to be intimate solely for the money.
That’s why some women working in the adult entertainment industry develop mental health issues.
If you’re able to view intimacy as a transactional relationship purely for the money, then working in the adult entertainment industry may be the perfect job for you.
Good luck.
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I quit Universe because I got tired of being expected to be kind, provide a reasonable allowance, and pursue an adult relationship, only to realize afterward that we hadn’t really formed a deep connection.
A big part of it was probably that I’m quite particular about the kind of appearance I’m attracted to.
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Those who have worked in the sex industry are used to seeing multiple clients, so they probably wouldn’t have much resistance to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
However, papa-katsu often involves the papa (a male supporter) developing feelings. Many women also prefer not to meet multiple men. Of course, it can be emotionally exhausting unless you draw a clear line.
That’s probably why people use terms like allowance, support, encouragement, or honorarium. If you’re approaching it as a way to earn money—thinking in terms of wages, take-home pay, or service fees—wouldn’t working in the sex industry be a better fit?
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There are definitely people—both men and women—who are better suited to the sex industry versus papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Whether it’s the sex industry or papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), men often end up getting the wrong idea. But since women in the sex industry expect that possibility, they’re less bothered by it, and they can’t get too deeply involved with a man who’s deluded about the relationship, so he may actually be easier to deal with.
I don’t think someone who entered the sex industry first is really suited to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) in the first place.
If anything, people who absolutely don’t want to work in the sex industry may be better suited to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), or at least more likely to feel its benefits.
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