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Jul 12, 2023 23:12
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t go as far as getting professional treatments, but I do think people who take care of themselves and pay attention to various details are more common among those doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) than among those who aren’t.
We papas are rivals, after all. If you can’t compete on allowance, you have to offer more things she’s comfortable with, or you won’t be chosen.
Some men do go to salons like “Men’s Dandy House,” but that doesn’t mean every man does. Since salon treatments mainly focus on improving the skin, they’re not necessarily enough to bring about fundamental changes.
If someone is aiming for real improvement from within, they need to make efforts such as strictly reassessing their daily diet and maintaining a regular workout routine. This requires a level of dedication beyond what the average middle-aged man practices in everyday life, so it’s hard to say that many men maintain such a lifestyle. However, people pursue self-improvement for different reasons, and it’s important to remember that it isn’t necessarily directly related to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
So even if your partner starts going to an esthetic salon, that alone isn’t clear evidence of cheating or papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). If you’re feeling uneasy, try to determine whether there have been any other changes in your partner’s behavior or attitude.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
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Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
People who want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) will do papa-katsu, and people who want to go to a spa will go to a spa.
Why does the questioner think men who want to do papa-katsu would go to a spa?
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t do anything in particular. I just pay attention to basic grooming.
Other
It depends on the person.
Marika