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May 29, 2019 09:11
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa here—I’ll answer too.
I don’t think the men’s profiles contain fabricated information, but since it’s difficult to write anything negative, the descriptions tend to be very mild.
For example:
“Extremely overweight man” → “A well-built man”
That said, when I later asked the women, some said, “I could tell he was overweight from ‘well-built,’ so I guess women are pretty good at picking up on things like that.”
As for their occupations, there may be some embellishment at the man’s request. I feel bad saying this when we tell women not to lie about their jobs, but since the system is based on men making offers to women, we ask for your understanding on this point.
Still, I think the vast majority of men—around 99%, perhaps—list their actual occupations.
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12年目のお局様👄クールビューティーに見えて中身はチャランポランです♪
Age: 30s
👩 Female
Universe staff
Mamiya here—where everything is made up.
Basically, when staff interview a man, they confirm his occupation, general appearance, hobbies, and so on, then pass along to women whatever information is appropriate to include in his profile.
Here are some points to keep in mind when creating a man’s profile:
- Avoid wording that could be insulting or defamatory toward him.
( “Fat” × → Better: “Well-built” )
- Avoid wording that gives women excessively high expectations.
( “Looks like Brad Pitt” or “handsome” × → Better: “Has a gentle air about him” )
- Include information women can use as a reference.
(Example: “A woman who enjoys reading and is likely to click with him” )
- Include anything the man specifically asks to have conveyed.
(Example: “He may come across as strict at first, but he’s kind and makes a point of treating women with respect.”)
Even if someone is described as a business owner, that could include a doctor who runs their own clinic. I’ve also told people I’ve just met that I work in the staffing business.
It may not go as far as being completely fake, but there may be some people whose profiles are a little questionable. I imagine the same applies to women as well.