If my papa has premature ejaculation and it’s causing problems, I’d consider solutions such as medication. But if I just want to satisfy my own desires, I’ll look elsewhere rather than relying on my papa.
In fact, my 70-year-old papa and I—I'm in my late 40s—are incredibly compatible, and we sometimes spend hours together, several times over. I also have other papas and a variety of toys.
By the way, most of my toys were gifts. I’m not a fan of Womanizer, so if anyone is thinking of giving me one, please feel free to reach out.
Marika
> He finishes right away, and papa is disappointed.
It’s possible that the questioner may have an exceptionally pleasurable vagina. They say that women with this quality often don’t realize it themselves. If you look back and find that things generally ended quickly for your partners, there’s a good chance you may be one of them.
That said, try being affectionate even after he’s finished. If you’re wondering what to do, simply staying in bed together while naked might be enough.
> 1. Are there any medications like that?
Since you’re able to have penetration but finish quickly, I assume you’re asking about medication to prevent premature ejaculation.
When I searched, I found that there is an oral medication called Priligy.
It was the world’s first oral treatment for premature ejaculation. It was developed in 2009 by Janssen Cilag Pharmaceutica, the pharmaceutical division of Johnson & Johnson, headquartered in Belgium. It is currently sold by the Italian company Menarini.
It has not yet been approved in Japan, but it has been approved in more than 60 countries, mainly in Europe, including Sweden, Finland, Spain, Portugal, Germany, Austria, Italy, New Zealand, Singapore, and South Korea. It is reportedly actually being used in more than 30 countries.
Hundreds of thousands of people have already used it, and its effectiveness and safety are said to have been established.
Its active ingredient, dapoxetine, reportedly increases serotonin, a neurotransmitter in the brain, while reducing the amount of norepinephrine. This suppresses the sensation of ejaculation and helps prevent premature ejaculation.
One factor behind premature ejaculation is thought to be excessive adrenaline secretion caused by insufficient serotonin. Excessive stress on the sympathetic nervous system, as well as excitement or nervousness, can trigger ejaculation at an unintended time.
Serotonin, a neurotransmitter in the brain, is believed to help regulate the balance of feelings such as excitement and anxiety by suppressing the activity of dopamine, which strongly enhances pleasure, and norepinephrine, which responds to tension and stress.
Dapoxetine prevents the reuptake of serotonin at nerve endings, thereby increasing serotonin levels in the brain, suppressing excessive arousal, and potentially prolonging the time before ejaculation.
However, Priligy is expensive, so generic versions also seem to be available.
Some clinics say they prescribe the generic drug dapoxetine. I’m not entirely sure how the system allows them to prescribe an unapproved medication, but even so, getting it prescribed through a clinic feels more reassuring than importing it personally.
There also seem to be clinics that prescribe the generic drug Pozzet.
Around the world, various medications are used to treat premature ejaculation. Although they are not officially indicated for premature ejaculation, they are said to have demonstrated effectiveness.
“Not indicated” apparently only means that the pharmaceutical company has not invested the money to conduct clinical trials and apply for approval; it does not mean that the medication is ineffective.
Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) and ED medications such as Levitra are said to be typical examples. Although Levitra is an ED medication, it also seems to have an effect on preventing premature ejaculation.
There are also reports examining the effectiveness of Uroxatral (silodosin) in treating premature ejaculation among patients who did not experience delayed ejaculation with Priligy (dapoxetine). So even if Priligy (dapoxetine) is ineffective, there appear to be other options.
> 2. Could it have adverse effects on the body?
Any medication can have side effects. For that reason, there are apparently people who cannot be prescribed Priligy due to contraindications or drug interactions.
The page I looked at listed the following, so it may be best to consult a clinic that prescribes it:
- Men under 20 or over 65
- People with heart conditions such as heart failure, arrhythmia, or arteriosclerotic disease
- People with moderate to severe liver impairment
- People with severe kidney disease
- People with epilepsy
- People with glaucoma
- People with a history of bleeding disorders or coagulation abnormalities
- People with depression, mania, bipolar disorder, or schizophrenia
- People taking anti-HIV or antifungal medications
> 3. Are there men who prefer women in their 40s, 50s, or 60s rather than younger women?
As you said yourself, I’m sure there are men like that, although I don’t think they’re particularly common.
At Universe, women around 30 are popular, so I think many men are looking for women between 25 and 34.
That said, women in their 40s and 50s are also registered, and they do receive offers, so there must be men who prefer them as well.
Thank you for your question!
I don’t know anything about ED medication, so I’ll only answer question 3.
3. Are there men who prefer women in their 40s, 50s, or 60s rather than younger women?
No.
There’s no papa who prefers you.
It’s not that they like her because she’s in her 40s—it’s that she’s Ryoko Hirosue, so they like her even though she’s in her 40s.
You’re in your 40s, receiving an allowance, and trying to get your own sexual pleasure from your papa. There’s no way a 68-year-old diabetic should be taking ED medication.
If he can finish quickly, he’s probably perfectly satisfied.
Don’t make him take medication and get an erection just because you’re not satisfied. He could die.
The reason you, a woman in your 40s, were chosen is probably because you’re thoughtful, considerate toward an older man, and able to give him sexual satisfaction and fulfillment.
If you’re really that thoughtful, pay to go to a host club, visit a women’s adult entertainment service, or find yourself a boyfriend through a dating app. Or find another papa.
A mistress-like relationship with a papa is a contract involving money, so please don’t make old-wife-style requests like, “You should satisfy my desires too.”
Medication puts your body into an unnatural state, so side effects are to be expected.
If you have any preexisting medical conditions, the risk of something going wrong is higher, so you should think carefully before taking it. If something does happen, it can be truly serious.
That said, if you want to maintain a mutually comfortable relationship, I think it would be better to experiment together and find ways to spend time that excite and satisfy you both.
My papa (a male supporter) isn’t weak, but since he wants us to enjoy that time even more, he comes up with various ideas, and we talk things over each time.
There are many ways to experience sexual pleasure.
It’s wonderful that you’re concerned about your papa, and I don’t think your relationship will fall apart if you explain that you’re worried about his health.
Akari
I think this is an honest perspective from a woman in her 40s.
Many women struggle with the same worries and conflicts as the person asking the question, yet still wait for the well-endowed, tireless Prince Charming who might one day come along.
1. Yes, there is.
2. The real issue is the diabetes in the first place. I don’t think there are many particularly effective medications for diabetes-related ED. He may be horny and demanding in his head, but his penis simply won’t cooperate. That’s what the condition is like.
The only solution is a treatment called ICI, which involves self-injecting medication directly into the erectile tissue of the penis. But it hurts and can be frightening, so some people can do it and others can’t. Basically, if you think you can handle it, give it a try.
