I might feel bad and generally avoid women who are virgins.
That said, I have been with one once.
A papa (a male supporter) who has a fantasy about virgins and hasn’t been with one before might pay a lot, though he probably wouldn’t be very experienced.
The ratio of men who find virgins a hassle to those who value them is probably 2:1—or maybe even 4:1. No, perhaps 9:1?
Fewer men than you might expect actually value virginity.
On the other hand, some men’s eyes light up the moment they hear a woman is a virgin. I suspect they’re men who weren’t popular when they were younger, or who became set in overly ascetic ways of thinking and never got to enjoy themselves enough.
Because they think, “If I can buy a virgin, I’ll pay a lot,” especially men among the above group who have never been with a virgin, some people assume virginity can be sold for a high price. That’s why people on this Q&A site give strange advice like, “Don’t sell yourself cheaply!” But men who offer that kind of money are inexperienced themselves—virgins or men who have never had sex—so they can’t necessarily handle a woman’s first time well.
It’s like having a resident doctor perform surgery.
As I’ve written here several times, the first three times or so can still be fairly painful, and if the first man is less well-endowed, there may even be bleeding the second time. So saying “I’m a virgin” remains believable until around the third time.
That’s why I think the smartest thing is to get it over with quickly with an experienced man—whether that’s a promiscuous young guy around your age or a seasoned older man like me who’s experienced with first times—and then market yourself to older virgins or inexperienced men willing to pay a lot on the second or third occasion.
Lately, I’ve been enjoying “aging” virgins instead of sleeping with them right away.
What I mean is, I take them to mixed-gender hot springs or a swingers’ club while they’re still virgins, and let them enjoy all kinds of extremely erotic play without actually losing their virginity. For example, I might lock them in a bathroom with about three young men, have the men wash their bodies, and then let everyone watch and enjoy it through frosted glass.
Repeating this makes the pleasure of finally losing their virginity outweigh the pain, and makes it easier for them to climax.
It doesn’t have to be me who takes their virginity. There isn’t actually that much pleasure in the act itself.
I have a dream. Not quite like Martin Luther King Jr.’s, though.
Taking a virginity at a swingers’ club. Lining up the men who happen to be there in order of penis size, then having them take turns.
I’d like to try it once. Is there anyone interested? How about you, questioner?
Send an offer to “Mac” in Nagoya using the “Sounds lovely” feature. The allowance would be ¥50,000 per person involved, paid by me, plus a ¥50,000 congratulatory gift. So if there were four men: 4 × 50,000 + 50,000 = ¥250,000.
Unrelated, but apparently the swingers’ club I often go to has been getting attention on Twitter, and quite a few men in their twenties have started coming.
Some clubs are gathering places for older people, while others don’t welcome single men and women unless they’re couples looking for group sex.
So you get 20-year-old guys showing up out of nowhere who have never been to an adult-entertainment establishment and have only ever been with one ex-girlfriend. You can’t understand where society is headed unless you actually put yourself in the field.
Whether it’s virginity or swingers’ clubs, if you think about them with an old, rigid mind, all you’ll come up with is fantasy.
P.S.
The questioner already sent me a “Sounds lovely” reverse offer. Lucky me.
Some men find virgins too much trouble, while others specifically prefer them.
I’m somewhere in the middle.
I’ve also made an offer through a club to a virgin woman whose appearance I liked (a Type B profile).
For various reasons, things never progressed to an adult relationship with her, though…
By the way, I checked the club’s member page and looked up the Type B1 women whose profiles mentioned that they were virgins.
As expected, the women I found particularly attractive had ratings of four or five stars, so I imagine they were receiving plenty of offers.
They’ve probably already had their first experience by now.
In other words, being a virgin doesn’t necessarily make it harder to receive offers.
