Since I have a fairly respectable job, quite a few people seem to like the contrast of me working with a sharp, serious expression every day, but letting loose in front of them.
When I’m having dinner with my papa (a male supporter), I’m already on a date, so I’m probably pretty relaxed by then.
People often tell me I laugh a lot, but of course, my expression then is completely different from the one I have during sex.
I wonder if something was really delicious, I’d be like, “Ahh! S-so good!!” lol
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I can understand what you mean, but I feel like comparing it to mealtime may have been the wrong choice.
Rather than during a meal, I think many men are attracted to women who normally have a very refined, innocent image—like an old-school idol, someone who seems to belong to a completely different world, as if she could never possibly go to the bathroom—
but then lets herself go during intimate moments.
The reason I think this is because women in certain professions are especially popular.
If you think about it simply, they’re all human, so there shouldn’t really be any difference. Even so, people have fantasies and preconceived images, so it’s understandable that some men find value in that kind of woman.
That said, even without such a contrast, a woman who can enjoy herself during intimate moments already earns high marks in my book.
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Thanks for your question!
This is purely speculation, so I’m probably wrong, but I’ll give it a shot anyway.
Why do papas go out to eat and sleep with their mistresses?
Maybe meals with their wives are silent, except for the occasional complaints about their children’s education, tuition, and household finances. And when they seek physical affection, they’re turned down.
So perhaps, since that’s why they feel they need a dating club, the ideal response is the complete opposite of how their wives treat them.
- Let your eyes light up at an upscale restaurant.
- Even if you’re a little awkward, make the most of the food and conversation.
- Make him feel like you can’t wait for the night with him.
- Make him feel like you’ve always wanted to see him.
I think that would work well, but what do you think?
Personally, though, I don’t like women who think, “Okay, so I’ll play the refined lady over dinner and the bad girl in bed.”
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If she has the same expression during sex as she does over dinner, I’d assume she really hates being intimate with that man.
Even during dinner, isn’t she just putting on a fake smile and waiting for the time to pass?
If that’s the case, I wouldn’t feel happy about her putting on an act in bed either.
What makes me happy is seeing a different side of her—an expression she doesn’t show other people in everyday life.
It’s nice when she completely loses herself, but I also get excited and feel happy when, for example, a less experienced woman doesn’t make much noise but can’t hold back and visibly trembles with pleasure.
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It actually seems more unnatural for a woman’s expression to be the same while she’s eating and during intimate moments. She probably just doesn’t realize it herself（笑）
It’s not about the contrast. Some women are simply sensual— you can tell from their profile photos, and when you meet them, they’re exactly as they seemed. There have even been women who made me think, “Wait, you came all the way here on a regular train with that face?” I’m not saying they look exactly the same in bed, but they stay on that same wavelength, and it works well.
Of course, there are also women with a noticeable contrast, and that’s appealing in its own way.
I think every man wants a woman to let herself completely go in bed.
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