Tips Jul 6, 2023 15:05

I have a papa (a male supporter) who offered to see me in an adult relationship (intimate) once a month or once every two months. His favorite girl probably sees him several times a month, right??

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Since he only invites me occasionally, I feel like he could stop seeing me at any time. For all the papas out there: Do you ever only see your favorite girl once a month or just occasionally?
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
> Even with a favorite girl, are there cases where you only meet once a month or occasionally?? Not in my case. At that frequency, you’re just occasionally meeting a papa-katsu woman. I’m not interested in dating multiple women, so I see my favorite woman quite frequently.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
With most women, it’s once a month or once every two months. Lately, I’ve been busy working hard, so meetings every two months have become more common. But I like all of them!
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
> Are there cases where you only meet your favorite girl once a month or occasionally? > > Not in my case. > > Ever since we started seeing each other, I’ve met my favorite girl twice a month—never more, never less. > > I don’t have any girls who come second or lower, so I don’t meet anyone else.
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迷わない70代
パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中(笑)
Age: 70 or older 👨 Male Former Universe member
Even if I’m seeing multiple women, I don’t consider any one of them a particular favorite. As long as the arrangement continues, I value them all equally. Some people may meet frequently, but in my case, it’s generally once a month—or once every two months if our schedules don’t line up. I prefer women who aren’t concerned about being “number one” or “number two.”
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I meet women when they invite me and at the pace they prefer, so some of them I only see once a month. I also have women I see once a week, but that doesn’t necessarily mean I like them the most. Each woman has her own appeal, so I don’t really have a favorite. Both men and women have their own limits on how much time they want to devote to dating, so I think it’s pointless to try to measure someone’s feelings by how often they meet you. Some women may feel that a few tens of thousands of yen a month is enough spending money, while others may feel they need several hundred thousand yen every month. Since you seem worried about the relationship ending, I’ll share my thoughts on that. Personally, I don’t decide to stop seeing a woman because I’m comparing her with someone else. I start thinking about ending things when she becomes careless because she’s gotten too comfortable, or when the relationship continues but shows no sign of progressing. So rather than worrying about what other women are doing, I think it’s better to focus on how to maintain and develop a happy relationship with your partner.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I see my favorite person two or three days a month because he tells me he genuinely likes me. I think pretending to like someone is the best way to move up in the rankings.
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