Tips Jul 4, 2023 17:40

I’ve been enjoying my papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) experiences so far.

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Recently, someone I was introduced to—though I’m still a beginner myself—has canceled at the last minute twice within a month. They’ve also been slow to respond when trying to reschedule, which has been frustrating. I’ve even offered to improve the allowance or adjust the terms, but they said that wasn’t necessary. When I ask what they want to do about our relationship, they say they’d like to see me again, but I’m always the one arranging the rescheduling, and it takes two or three days to get a reply. Honestly, keeping several possible time slots open for days is difficult from a work standpoint. Would you end the relationship at this point?
👤 Asked by Guest 👨GenderMale 🎂 50s 👑 Universe male member
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シアトル
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🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’ll wait up to 24 hours, but if someone takes longer than that to send a necessary reply, we’re obviously done. If they cancel at the last minute twice, we’re done.
2023/07/07 09:07
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だて◎ゆめ
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I think saying it takes two or three days to reply is a bit much. I think replying by the next day should be fine.
2023/07/05 00:22
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ダイ
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
The key question is whether she’s someone you still want to see despite all that. For example, if she’s a flight attendant, I can understand it to some extent. I’ve heard that if they make plans on a standby day, they may suddenly get assigned a flight. If it were me, I’d look for one other woman as well and continue seeing her only to the extent that it doesn’t become a source of stress.
2023/07/05 00:21
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紙ひこうき
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🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！ B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！ 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Of course I’d end it. Actually, I wouldn’t continue in the first place. With smartphones and LINE these days, if it’s just about coordinating schedules, you can reply within a few minutes. You can even get a response within seconds. Unless there’s some special circumstance, it shouldn’t take half a day or until the next day.
2023/07/05 00:22
(3 replies left)

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