Tips Jul 3, 2023 06:04

☆I have an appendectomy scar on my abdomen

This content is machine-translated.
☆I also have scars on my legs and arms from being hit by a car A friend once told me that some men don’t like women who have scars on their bodies. Do men generally tend to avoid women with scars?
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
💗 Likes 0 👁️ Views 102 💬 Answers 10
🔖 ID [HRGt-00000 🎯 Looking for answers from 代表者 スタッフ 男性会員

5 answers

木田(社長)
木田(社長) Male Send a reverse offer to this responder
👨 Male Other
Thank you for your question! Suppose the profile that men see was written as follows: High academic achiever ◯◯! Introduced by ◯◯◯. <b>※The following is based on the woman’s questionnaire responses. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ■Reason for registering I decided to register because I want to broaden my values and live a richer life through conversations and experiences with people I wouldn’t normally have the chance to meet. I’m looking forward to meeting you♪ ■Attitude toward money I’m not much of a spender, so I think my sense of money is pretty average. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━</b> 【Staff’s selections】 Recommended impression: 5 — Highly recommended! Definitely a favorite! Appearance: Looks just like her photos Outfit during the photo shoot: Casual clothes 【Looks】 Tattoos/body piercings: None ※She has scars on her arm and leg from a traffic accident. There is some discoloration, and the stitch marks are visible. She has a slightly unpolished charm that actually makes her even more appealing! She has a refined, intelligent look, and she’s the kind of woman you could walk around town with without attracting any odd looks. Her appearance is very composed, so people looking from the outside wouldn’t think, “Oh, is that papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?” It would probably look more like she was simply a company employee you were out with. 【Personality】 Even though the weather wasn’t very good, she arrived a little before the scheduled time, which alone showed how serious and reliable Elena is. She’s very serious, has no papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) experience whatsoever, and has had fewer experiences with men than you might expect for her age. Still, the fact that she chose Type D right away made me think she must be quite curious and adventurous. Personally, I think people who get absorbed in their own world during photo shoots and strike all kinds of poses are naughty(笑) I imagine they’re the type to express themselves freely in bed, too. On the other hand, I expect people who become completely stiff and ask, “What should I do…?” to be totally passive. ◯◯ was the former type. I suspect she may be naughty—or perhaps secretly naughty. 【Reason for registering】 She came to Universe because she doesn’t meet anyone at work and wants to improve herself and become more beautiful through interacting with men. She wants to save money and spend it on cosmetic dermatology, orthodontic treatment, and so on. 【Relationship type / attitude toward money】 During her interview, she chose Type C. Since she has no papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) experience, I’m not sure how clear an image she has of it, but because of her profession, she probably sees people naked fairly often, so she may be more comfortable with it than expected. My impression was that her attitude toward money was average. She said her target allowance was around ¥50,000 a month. She also works night shifts, so I believe she earns enough to support herself comfortably. As for how she would use the money, she said she wants to save it so she can spend more on beauty treatments. 【Preferred type】 She says she may not be comfortable with intimidating-looking men. 【Concerns】 None in particular! 【In closing】 If you like highly educated women, nurses, or women who are refreshingly normal in the best possible way, I highly recommend Elena!! By the way, the book Elena is holding in the top photo was used as a prop for the shoot. It’s titled: “How Does a Dating Club Company Receive 700 Applications from New Graduates?” Written by Satoshi Kida, Representative Director(笑) We look forward to receiving your invitations for Elena. Hikaru Takasaki ※Height, weight, and bust size are self-reported. ※Information current as of ◯/◯/2023. Suppose it had been written like that. The strong impressions created by phrases like “serious and highly educated” and “secretly naughty” stand out so much that, among all the information in the text, photos, and videos, wouldn’t the scars account for less than 1%? That said, I just casually reused an old profile, but Takasaki is a genius.
(3 replies left)
You already went to Universe Club for an interview and were accepted, right? The staff saw your scars, didn’t they? If they saw them and still registered you, I don’t think you need to worry too much. Unless they’re self-harm scars from intentionally cutting yourself or tattoos, there are men who will love you even with your scars. It would be wonderful if you could meet someone like that.
(3 replies left)
前澤(スタッフ)
前澤(スタッフ) Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
If you’re exceptionally beautiful—beautiful enough that there’s hardly anyone else like you—you’ll receive plenty of offers regardless of how many scars you have. Scars only affect people who don’t otherwise stand out that much. If a man is simply unsure whether to make an offer, or is choosing between multiple candidates, he may decide to offer to the one without scars or decide to pass this time. So yes, scars can have an impact, but they don’t affect everyone. That’s why I’m not sure how the answer to the question, “Do men avoid women with scars on their bodies?” would actually help. If you register, you’ll find out whether you receive any offers. If you do, you’ll probably feel silly for worrying about it and asking here in the first place. Even if you don’t receive any offers, you still won’t necessarily know whether your scars were the reason. And even if you don’t get an offer, all it means in the context of your life is simply that you didn’t receive an offer through a dating club. It has nothing directly to do with your appeal. If you’re an attractive woman—or are striving to become one—you can still live a fulfilling life even if you don’t receive an offer from Universe. Universe isn’t everything. I believe everyone has places where they can shine. With that in mind, I don’t think you need to worry about whether you’ll receive an offer.
(3 replies left)
マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
You can just blame it on the scar so you won’t feel as discouraged if no offers come in or nothing else works out. Maybe use it that way.
(3 replies left)
シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Tattoos and self-harm scars would put me off, but injuries like that are fine. If you mention them in your profile beforehand, I can prepare myself—in fact, it might even make me feel a little sad.
(3 replies left)