I’m the woman who wrote about being pressured into anal sex.

Since this wasn’t a question but merely my personal thoughts with a request added, I considered hiding it. For now, though, I’ve left only the request and edited out the rest. As for the request, here’s my response: Please direct your requests to the staff at the branch office. Writing them here is nothing more than empty words. To add a little more, this is fundamentally about free romance, and Universe simply provides opportunities for people to meet. Members who commit acts that violate the law are forcibly removed, and we also educate members to prevent such behavior. We do our best to provide opportunities to meet as safely as possible. Even so, if someone claims they were forced into something, then that becomes a matter between the two individuals involved. If something was done to them that violated Japanese law in the first place, it should be possible to pursue criminal charges, and they may also be able to file a civil lawsuit. Since systems like these exist, it seems there are things they should be doing rather than writing about it here.

If you’re going to the hospital, it’s a good idea to ask them to issue a medical certificate. Make sure to emphasize that it was done against your will. If you send him a LINE message with a photo of the certificate saying, “I’m so devastated I can’t cope, so I want compensation. If you won’t pay, I’ll consult the police about filing a complaint for assault,” he’ll probably panic and give you some money.

The details keep changing so much that it looks like a bait question, so I was going to ignore it—but there’s something important I want to point out. > Would it be difficult to ask the male members not to have anal sex? It’s difficult to expect a dating club to get involved in the details of what happens in a relationship. If they did get involved, would it end up being something like: “Please use condoms for both oral sex and intercourse, with an allowance of ¥〇 per meeting. Koi King kisses and fingering are prohibited. Penetration is limited to five minutes”? (laughs) That would be nothing more than brokering prostitution. The places that can intervene in what happens inside the room are brick-and-mortar adult entertainment establishments. You may want to consider a health-service brothel or a soapland. Paying protection money to an antisocial organization and engaging in compensated dating through a dating site would mean associating with such groups, so I wouldn’t recommend it.