I once had a papa who liked anal sex, but I remember it being extremely painful.
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We had sex normally, and after a while, he said, “I want to finish inside you without a condom,” and forcibly entered me from behind.
① Are there many men who like anal sex because they can finish inside without a condom?
② I’ve heard that having anal sex makes you more likely to contract certain illnesses. Is that true?
③ He doesn’t seem to take my pain seriously. If he won’t stop, I’m thinking about ending the relationship.
④ Are there papas who have sex with both men and women?
I was extremely shocked and upset…
I’ve learned that papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) comes with various risks.
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1. I’m not a fan of anal sex because it’s too tight and makes it difficult to move. I feel like I’d get tired of it after trying it once.
It’s probably not the majority preference.
2. The anus is more prone to bleeding than the vagina, so the risk of STIs is probably several times higher.
3. Anyone who forces it is crossing a line where you could legitimately report them to the police. Charging an additional fee of tens of thousands of yen is only fair. If you can’t enjoy it, you don’t have to do it even for extra money. It can lead to hemorrhoids.
4. There are probably bisexual people out there, though only occasionally. For the same reason as in point 2, the risk of STIs is higher.
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Just to be clear, this is something that could easily happen with an ordinary boyfriend too.
It’s not something you encounter simply because it’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
To be blunt, if you’re the kind of person who might go along with anal sex in the heat of the moment, you might also end up allowing a man to finish inside you without protection.
So I don’t think this man necessarily wants anal sex simply because it allows him to finish inside you without protection.
In other words, that’s probably just one of his excuses for wanting anal sex.
As for the risk of disease, it’s well known that around 70% of new HIV infections occur through sex between men—in other words, through anal sex.
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Tomioka from the Umeda branch will answer.
① Are there many men who like anal sex because they can have unprotected sex and finish inside?
→ There are many male supporters who like buttocks.
However, I think going any further than that is relatively uncommon.
② I’ve heard that anal sex makes you more likely to contract some kind of illness. Is that true?
→ According to what I found:
“Anal sex carries a much higher risk of sexually transmitted infections than vaginal sex. The risk is especially high for infections transmitted through blood. Unlike the vagina, the anus is narrow, so inserting a penis can tear the mucous membrane and cause bleeding. Semen can then enter through the anal lining or any bleeding areas, resulting in infection.”
For that reason, we do not recommend it.
③ He doesn’t seem to take my pain seriously, and if he won’t stop, I’m considering ending our relationship.
→ I think it would be difficult to maintain a long-term relationship with a male supporter who only thinks about himself. He probably has a strong “I’m paying you” mentality…
④ Are there papa supporters who can have sex with both men and women?
→ There may be some, though probably not many.
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Haha! (lol)
You’ve had quite an experience—though it’s not really something to laugh about, is it? (lol)
I don’t think there are many people into anal or bisexual relationships, but since dating clubs tend to attract a wide range of people, who knows?
Even if it’s an allowance-based relationship, there’s no point continuing one if neither of you is having fun or getting anything out of it.
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Poor thing. If a papa asks you to do things you don’t like, it’s best to end things with him. Since there probably aren’t many people who are bisexual or into anal, let’s wait for an offer from your next papa.
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You were forced into it, weren’t you?
Your stomach may become upset after anal sex, so please be careful.
① Are there many men who like anal sex because they can ejaculate inside without a condom?
☆ Hmm… Some people apparently find it pleasurable because the anus is tighter than the vagina. I’ve heard that people who can climax from oral sex alone also tend to find anal sex pleasurable.
Even if he ejaculates inside the large intestine, you can still contract an STI.
② I’ve heard that having anal sex makes you more susceptible to certain illnesses. Is that true?
☆ The large intestine can bleed easily, so please be especially careful.
③ He doesn’t seem to take my pain seriously, and if he won’t stop, I’m thinking of ending our relationship.
☆ Your papa may be thinking of “training” you. If he wants anal sex, tell him to increase your allowance.
Men who like anal sex should choose women who are comfortable with it.
④ Are there papas who can have sex with both men and women?
☆ With more men being open about it these days, I’m sure there are people who are comfortable with both men and women.
After hearing all this, whether you continue seeing him is ultimately up to you, but please never force yourself. There are countless other men out there. Work on both your appearance and your inner self while you wait.
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