Tips Jun 25, 2023 19:30

If I were to date a black-class woman, I’m considering offering an allowance of ¥100,000 per meeting to make sure she takes a liking to me. Would that be considered a high amount at a dating club?

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Also, if I don’t want her seeing other people, would monthly support of ¥400,000–¥500,000 be considered insufficient?
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Age: 70 or older 👨 Male Former Universe member
Black class: Her profile is currently unavailable because offers have been pouring in. Apparently, she’s sorting through them and carefully deciding which men to meet… With me, she said she doesn’t care about the allowance amount and would like us to decide on something reasonable and continue seeing each other. Platinum class: The allowance is still low, but she said she doesn’t want to accept offers from any other men, so she’s taking a break from the club… Even if the pay-per-meeting financial support is less than half of what the questioner offers, if you meet while genuinely wishing for the other person’s happiness tomorrow, things naturally develop… (And no, I’m not religious! lol)
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I think it’s more important to become the kind of woman a man genuinely likes than to focus on the allowance amount. Also, almost none of the women in the Black class are particularly fixated on their allowance. I’ve actually seen more women in the Platinum and Gold classes who care about it. I do feel that this may be influenced by how often they get criticized and how often their arrangements continue.
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I hear that rates have been dropping lately, so 10 per meeting would be considered quite generous. That said, 40–50 a month is an amount that can easily start to feel “too little” if there’s even the slightest dissatisfaction with the arrangement. Four pay-per-meeting dates at 10 each might be fine, but I’d recommend avoiding a monthly arrangement.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
When the server is slow to respond, I don’t know whether pressing “Submit” again causes the same post to appear twice, or whether there’s an issue with the tool the person asking the question is using. If it’s the former, please don’t press the button twice. And if you’re using some kind of tool, please don’t use anything unusual. When two identical posts are made and both receive answers, both have to be left up, which makes things difficult for people reading them later. As for “Fix the question box already,” they said just a few days ago that they don’t have the capacity to fix it for at least the next ten years. Maybe they’re planning to just let it fade away naturally. I suppose I could set up another question box myself, but if I were going to do it, I’d want to make it more feature-rich. Then it would probably end up being expensive, which makes me hesitate. Anyway, getting to the main point: I don’t think ¥100,000 per meeting is particularly high. However, many men hesitate once the amount reaches six figures, so it’s probably more generous than what those men offer. That said, if you become overconfident and assume you have an advantage simply because your allowance is higher than other people’s, things probably won’t go well. There are always plenty of people offering even more. Even if you’re paying ¥100,000, there are lots of men who pay more. That’s precisely why it’s important to be kinder than the others and to make her like you for reasons beyond money. The moment you start thinking, “My allowance is high—at least it should be,” I want you to remind yourself that you’re already heading in the wrong direction. > Would women feel that monthly support of ¥400,000–¥500,000 is insufficient? It probably depends on the woman, so I think you should start by making lots of offers, going on dates, and building up experience. During that time, consider it a training period. The key is to continue seeing them without saying that you want to have them exclusively. Eventually, you’ll get a feel for things and understand what level of support is actually needed. However, do this outside of Universe. At Universe, having a woman leave the club—or rather, talking to her about quitting, which is practically the same thing—is prohibited by the rules. That said, there have been plenty of people like the person asking this question in the past, so I sometimes think they should simply rewrite the rules to say: “If you want a woman to leave, pay Universe ¥10 million. Universe can give ¥5 million to the woman, so let’s split it. Haha.” After all, if a popular woman leaves, the club is probably losing about that much in potential revenue. And for the woman, receiving ¥5 million would probably only bring things roughly back to break-even. Women are free to leave voluntarily. But the moment a man tells a woman that he wants her to quit Universe, that constitutes a violation of the rules.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It really depends on the person, so it’s hard to say. Women who receive a lot of offers can probably easily make 400,000 or 500,000 yen a month if they set their mind to it. So if you want a woman to like you, I think you should consider more than just the amount of the allowance.
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