I recently received my first offer and started seeing someone.
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I’m always the one who initiates plans and sends messages on LINE, while he hasn’t made any effort at all. Is this what dating through papa-katsu is usually like?
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂20s👑Universe female member
I think you simply weren’t a good match with that particular person.
A papa (a male supporter) who genuinely likes you will keep in touch, and you’ll be able to enjoy seeing each other, so don’t worry.
In the meantime, focus on growing as a person.
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If you’re not getting any action, you’re probably ranked third or lower among the men’s options.
Either increase your numbers or act more dependent to move up the rankings.
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I think the type of relationship you have will vary from person to person.
If things are going well when you reach out to him, then I think that’s perfectly fine. You can continue seeing him with the understanding that this is the kind of relationship you have with him, while also looking for other papas in parallel so you can meet someone who better matches your ideal.
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There are plenty of male members who aren’t like that, so don’t worry（笑）
Do you understand why communication tends to be one-sided?
You’ll see the answer if you think carefully about allowance-based relationships.
There are hints even in this anonymous papa-katsu Q&A box.
Read through as much of it as you can.
I think you’ll find it makes sense.
If possible, choose a papa (a male supporter) who responds thoughtfully.
Even in an allowance-based relationship, dating should be enjoyable, stress-free, and mutually beneficial.
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Men are making an offer because they’ve already chosen you from among thousands based on your looks, vibe, way of speaking, profile, and so on. Women, on the other hand, are coming to meet them without knowing much about them.
That’s why things tend to go more smoothly when women take the initiative. It’s better than having everything be a one-way effort from the man’s side…
Also, an average man at a dating club has plenty of options even without reaching out himself, so women shouldn’t hesitate to contact him about scheduling a meeting.
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