Hello, nice to meet you. I have a question. I’m married, but I recently discovered Twitter and was surprised by how many women are involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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My only real enjoyment is going shopping alone during the day, and I feel lonely and bored. I’m also doing my best to take care of my appearance, but there’s only so much I can do on my own. I’m considering signing up because I’d like to talk with someone intelligent and gentlemanly.
Since I’m married, I can only meet during the day. Are there any papas (male supporters) who would have a meal with me, tell me about their work or things I don’t know about, or take me on dates? I haven’t decided on an allowance amount or whether I want an adult relationship (intimate). I’d like things to be decided naturally if we click and can respect, support, and encourage each other. I’d say my looks are average. Am I being too naïve?
I mostly agree with Nana’s way of thinking—I do think that view is a bit naïve.
That said, as someone who has offered to meet a married woman before, I wouldn’t hesitate to make an offer if I felt we could potentially date even though she was married.
As for what happened afterward, she quit the site two or three days later, after saying something absolutely outrageous to me.（笑）
After that, I took it as a valuable experience and lesson, and ultimately I’ve never made another offer to a married woman.
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Men don’t register with dating clubs just to chat. Have you been reading too many manga? You’re being naïve.
Since you’re in your 30s, you should assume that an adult relationship (intimate) is generally part of the deal. Also, I think most men avoid married women.
If you have that much free time, get a job.
And if you really think you’re prepared, you’d be safer becoming a Universe member than working independently in the sex industry through Twitter.
Are you trying to destroy your family?
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I suspect there are quite a few women who think the way you do, but I believe they’re a minority here. At the same time, I imagine that a certain number of married male members are looking for women like you.
That said, whether at Universe or elsewhere, I don’t think many men truly understand the risks involved with married women and act cautiously. I’m one of them—or perhaps I’m the only one—but men in general tend to be careless about getting caught and probably just assume, without any real basis, that they won’t be.
I think your outlook is ideal, and honestly, quite wonderful. However, wouldn’t men who are willing to accept and respect it be in the minority?
Still, they do exist, so why not take the plunge, join, and see how it goes? You might even find your ideal partner.
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