It’s perfectly possible to simply forget.
The first woman I made an offer to after joining the club and I didn’t hit it off at all. We never got as far as discussing whether we’d meet again or what the terms would be, and she wouldn’t clearly turn me down either—she just kept being vague. While I was wondering what to do, I completely forgot. She pointed it out while we were walking to the station, so I gave it to her in a quiet, out-of-the-way spot by the roadside.
With another woman, the conversation was really lively. We had a fun meal and said goodbye, then I realized on the train home that I hadn’t given her anything and hurriedly messaged her on LINE: “I’m sorry, I completely forgot. I’ll give it all to you next time.” She replied, “I completely forgot too, lol.” We ended up meeting three times, though it never developed into a relationship. Since we’d both made a good impression and wanted to meet again after the first meeting, it became something we could laugh about.
Some people say you should give it to her right away, but just after entering the restaurant, even if you’re in a private room, staff are constantly coming in and out with hot towels and things, so finding the right moment can be difficult. Once you get used to it, you establish a routine and these mishaps become less common. Still, there are women who are Type C but don’t want anything intimate on the first day while wanting to make plans for the next meeting. That can throw off your rhythm, and if you forget the transportation money, they’ll say, “You forgot again.” I want to say, “This is your fault,” but I suppose I’d still be the one in the wrong.
Of course, there may also be men who intentionally pretend to forget. You’re asking because you’re convinced that’s what happened, right? If something like that happens, you should calmly report it to the club. The club staff will listen to both sides, consider the possibility that either party may be lying, and make a judgment based on what they determine.
Taro
You were just unlucky.
Just as some women want a generous allowance, there are bound to be a certain number of papas who try to get by as cheaply as possible.
Please make sure to give the club detailed feedback so other female members don’t have to go through the same unpleasant experience.
Eventually, negative feedback will pile up, women will dislike him and stop seeing him, and I think papas like that will naturally be weeded out.
They do show up from time to time, so please make sure to submit a -2 rating in your post-date feedback.
If they receive this negative rating from around three or four people in a row, they’ll probably be forcibly removed from the site.
