Why not start by coming in for an interview? If you’re accepted, you can wait and see what offers come your way.
I’ve seen women who are kind of cute in an unconventional way—or just have a good balance—getting offers. They may not be stunningly beautiful, but they have a sexy appeal.
Papas who aren’t confident about their looks tend to balance things out, so if you’re at least clean and have qualities like a sweet, innocent vibe, you may have a chance.
Please find the courage to come in for an interview. If it doesn’t work out here, you can always try an app.
Since the staff interview many women, I don’t think they’ll judge you just because you’re not conventionally attractive.
There are also plenty of men, so if there’s anything about you that might lead to an offer, they’ll probably let you register.
However, getting registered isn’t the end goal.
You may not receive many offers, so I hope you’ll value each one.
> What do you think when a girl who isn’t cute comes in for an interview?
There’s really nothing in particular to worry about, so you can relax.
The interviewer may think things like:
“Hmm, what could I highlight about her to attract an offer?”
“Oh, she lines up her shoes neatly—that’s a good sign.”
“Her gestures when she sits are quite nice too.”
“Now that I’ve talked with her, she has a pleasant personality.”
“What? She won a national piano competition?”
“I wasn’t sure we could register her based on her looks alone, but maybe she might actually receive an offer.”
They may start wondering if there are any other appealing qualities she has.
On the other hand, if you have nothing to highlight, you might not pass the interview. And some people think they aren’t cute when they actually are.
If you’re considering going to an interview, you won’t know what will happen unless you go. So why not come in for an interview first?
It’s okay.
The staff would be the best people to answer this, but speaking as a male member who has met women who passed the interview, I can tell you that “there are all kinds of people.” The women are classified by appearance, and while I can understand the reasoning when looking at them as a member, I often feel that my decision about whether to make an offer would be quite different. Conversely, I’ve made offers to women in lower classes because they were my type, and some of those relationships lasted a long time. Men have all kinds of preferences, so you don’t need to think of appearance as being judged along just one single scale.
Personality is also important. Can you genuinely engage with the people you meet, including during the interview, and build a relationship with them? I think that matters even more than appearance. When you register, the staff write an introduction for you, and sometimes, just from reading it, you can somehow sense the atmosphere of the interview. You may get the impression that she was rude, or that she didn’t open up to the staff who were supposed to support her. The staff don’t explicitly write anything like that. But they have plenty of experience, both because of their age and through their work—not just in dating clubs—so they can pick up on those things.
Looking at it from a slightly broader perspective, trying something new can be incredibly intimidating. But that’s perfectly normal, and you should still take the step despite feeling anxious. There’s an article about the regrets doctors in end-of-life care heard from their patients, and the number-one regret was, “I wish I had taken the chance instead of hesitating.”
Let me say one more thing. There is absolutely someone out there who will come to like both your appearance and your personality. If that hasn’t happened yet, it simply means you haven’t had the opportunity to meet that person. Anyone with experience knows this to be an obvious fact, and the staff, who have seen countless encounters, understand it as well. As long as you don’t shut down your own opportunities, everyone gets their chance. It’s really not that complicated(^^)
So there’s nothing to worry about. Just appreciate and cherish each encounter, and keep moving forward one step at a time.
Taro
