Tips Jun 21, 2023 14:35

I’m new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).

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I’d like to enjoy meals, shopping, and dates without an adult relationship (intimacy). Would a papa (a male supporter) still be willing to give an allowance to someone like me?
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Personally, I can find women who’ll have dinner with me without an adult relationship (I’ll pay for the meal, of course), so I don’t really see the point in paying an allowance.
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
To be perfectly honest, it wouldn’t work for me. No matter how many women I have registered with the dating club, I’m relying on it to find one mistress to build a relationship with. I’m not doing this just for fun.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It might be possible outside the club. Within the club, though, it would be pretty difficult—unless there’s at least some possibility of an adult relationship (intimate) down the line. If he’s quite elderly, there might be a chance.
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
I recently saw an interview where someone said, “With oshikatsu, what matters is how much you can spend on the person you support. I could only buy 50 CDs, so I still have a long way to go.” Apparently, it’s currently popular to support people close to you, so I assume those CDs weren’t from a major artist—though I’m not entirely sure. With that in mind, there may be men who would want to support you, the person asking the question. That said, it’s only natural that someone needs to have some quality that makes you want to support them in the first place. If a woman has something that makes a man want to support her, he may give her an allowance even if all they do is have dinner. In other words, the reality is that some men will give an allowance—even for dinner only (no intimacy)—to women they feel are worth supporting.
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ジョー・ルビコン
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🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
In my case, it depends on what the other person can offer me besides sex. What do you think your selling points are?
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If the total of the allowance and gifts (shopping) is 10,000 yen or less, I think it would be okay to make an offer.
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