I’d like to ask the male members here: I want to take stronger precautions against STIs for my important monthly supporter. If, when moving from the first meeting to an adult relationship (intimate), I suggested fellatio with a condom, would that make you feel offended?
Personally, until we’ve been seeing each other for a few months and built mutual trust, I’d prefer either fellatio with a condom or no fellatio, and no deep kissing or cunnilingus. I’d appreciate hearing what you would think of a woman who presented these terms.
In fact, even after having my tonsils removed, I’m prone to sore throats, so that’s another reason.
Thank you.
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I think you’re being overly cautious.
I also get the feeling that sex with you would be pretty boring for the person asking the question.
For me, protected oral sex—or no oral sex at all—is the default.
STIs are scary, after all.
Based on my experience doing intimate things with several hundred people in non-penetrative adult entertainment, the main causes of STI transmission are unprotected frottage and unprotected fellatio.
I’ve contracted an STI twice, but after I stopped doing those two things without protection, I stopped getting STIs altogether.
Condoms really are amazing.
In my personal experience, I’ve hardly ever heard of anyone contracting an STI through cunnilingus or deep kissing.
If you still don’t want to do those things, then the best approach is simply not to have sex outside of a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
Come to think of it, one of the women I dated told me she caught an STI during her first sexual experience with her first boyfriend. So ultimately, not having sex at all is the best way to prevent STIs.
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I’m afraid I have to agree with Kazu.
If that’s the case, most men would probably look for another woman rather than force the relationship.
That said, if she’s a C- or D-type and a Black Class woman, she’d be exceptionally attractive—someone you wouldn’t normally encounter—and the man has already paid a ¥100,000 setting fee.
So even under those terms, some men might be willing to go to a hotel with her once. Whether he’d want to see her again, though, would probably depend on whether you have technique on par with the “bar-drying firefly.”
However, if what you mean is that you want to wait until the relationship has continued for several months and you’ve built mutual trust, then you could register as B1 and simply go on dinner dates until you feel you can trust him.
By the time you go to a hotel, you’d hopefully have reached the point where you no longer need to set conditions such as a condom blowjob or no blowjob, no deep kissing, and no cunnilingus.
That would seem fairly close to an ordinary relationship.
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Having none of the three might be asking too much.
Since I value the relationship aspect, I’m fine with something more amateur-like without blowjobs or cunnilingus.
But no kissing would be pretty tough… No, I don’t think I could do that.
That said, more important than whether those things are included is how much you can enjoy yourself and climax.
Also, if she’s really an amateur, no one would bring those things up in the first place. The moment she lays out those terms, she’s a pro.
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Good evening.
It doesn’t bother me, but it won’t develop into a romantic relationship either.
I wouldn’t say it out loud, but I do think she should value her regular papa and stop seeing other men.
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