Taro and Joe,

Thank you very much for your answers. ◆I apologize for the lengthy message below.◆ Good evening. I’m the woman in her 50s who posted a question here yesterday. Thank you for sharing your valuable opinions. I will certainly take them into consideration. I don’t know whether I’ll be accepted as a member, but based on the various experiences I’ve gained throughout my life, I intend to continue making an effort to remain “a refined, elegant woman with charm and a touch of glamour, no matter her age.” When meeting someone for tea or a meal, I wear contact lenses and makeup. If things develop into an adult relationship (intimate), I have no problem going without my contacts and makeup if we are only staying at a hotel for a few hours. However, if we stay overnight, sleeping in contact lenses would put a strain on my eyes, so I would prefer to avoid it if possible. Also, I have never slept overnight with makeup on, which is why I wanted to ask about this. In the past, men I was involved with often told me that my expression looked different in each of these situations: ◆The atmosphere when I was having a meal ◆My facial expression when we were intimate in bed ◆My bare face after taking a shower They would say, “You’re usually so intelligent, elegant, and alluring, but without makeup, you look truly innocent.” Perhaps because I wear very light makeup, I don’t look all that different without it. So I don’t think a man would be disappointed when seeing my bare face. Ideally, I would like to remove my contact lenses and go without makeup when staying overnight. If things develop into an adult relationship (intimate), I plan to explain my circumstances. 【Questions】 ① Regarding names Would it be acceptable to use a name I like rather than my real name when seeing someone? ② If I decide not to continue seeing someone If we meet for the first time, have a meal, and like each other enough to continue seeing one another, I assume we would exchange email addresses and stay in touch. ◆But if I decide not to continue seeing him, would I simply say, “Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule for me today, and for treating me to such a delicious meal,” and then let things naturally fade away while waiting for the next offer? ③ In general, until what age are men capable of having sexual intercourse? I look forward to meeting wonderful men in the years ahead. If someone takes a liking to me, things may develop into an adult relationship (intimate), but naturally, there may be times when things do not go well due to either person’s physical condition. In addition, both men and women grow older over time. I hope to meet intelligent, sophisticated, and wonderful men in the years ahead. I believe I also need to make an effort so that we can build a long-lasting relationship based on sincerity and mutual respect. I apologize for taking up your valuable time, but I would greatly appreciate your answers. P.S. Today, I saw Shuzo Matsuoka in a television commercial for adult men’s brief-style diapers. It reminded me that everyone grows older eventually.