I’m a married woman in my 30s. My husband earns enough to register with an upscale dating club, but he’s all work and no excitement, so I feel like, “I’ll never be younger than I am now!” and want to register—but I’m also scared.
Since I’m married and no longer that young, would there still be any demand for me if I registered as Type A, especially considering the legal implications?
When I was in my 20s, potential papa (male supporters) seemed to appear without me even trying. I politely turned them down and got through those situations, though I did have a few people who were content with just having tea. In my 30s, I’ve been occupied with marriage and COVID, so nothing like that has happened.
> If I register as Type A, considering the legal aspects as well, would there still be demand?
If you’re concerned enough about the legal side to ask, I feel it might be better not to register in the first place. I assume you mean that Type A is supposed to be problem-free, but I think it would still be quite difficult.
A useful way to look at it might be this: if you wanted to date a younger man, would you be willing to pay the club a ¥50,000 arrangement fee plus the cost of the meal and so on for a married man who only wanted dinner?
In the end, I think feelings are also part of it. If a woman genuinely wants to have fun, a man may want to make her an offer—though I can’t say for sure, since appearance matters too. But if she seems to have registered only because she wants dinner and nothing more, some men probably won’t want to make her an offer.
> What if her face were like Ryoko Hirosue’s?
Since she was reported to have gone to a hotel, I suppose that would mean she wasn’t Type A. Thinking about it that way, even if she looked like Ryoko Hirosue, I feel it would still be difficult unless she were at least mentally open to something around Type B1.
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Honestly, if you’re married and in your 30s, getting even an A would be pretty difficult.
Depending on your looks, you might be able to get a C, but being married could still make things challenging.
If your husband earns about as much as we do and you’re financially comfortable, then what you’re really looking for is that feeling of excitement, right?
You could try mama-katsu or a male escort service and keep it as a transactional relationship with a younger man. That would involve fewer risks, and you might be able to enjoy some good experiences and a sense of simulated excitement.
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I’m not really sure about the demand, but it’s worth a try—why not sign up?
If you don’t get any offers, you can always give up. Keep a spirit of adventure and enjoy life.
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Even if there isn’t much demand, you can still register to help boost the number of female members.
You may not need much of an allowance, but there could still be about as much demand for you as there is for women who join the club.
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If you’re in your 30s and an A-type, you won’t get offers unless you have something that sets you apart.
For example, you might look like Ryoko Hirosue, be 42 but look much younger, or be a flight attendant—something distinctive and interesting.
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Personally, I wouldn’t want to meet a woman with writing skills this poor, so regardless of her relationship type or whether she’s seeking an allowance, I don’t think there’s any demand.
That said, there’s no accounting for taste, so there may be men out there who would still want to date you.
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