They’re pretty common, actually. Personally, I often hear 4. I’ve heard 3 as well. The amount women most commonly ask for is 5. My impression is that many women who come through scouts are told the average is 7. There are plenty who ask for more, too. One woman said 15, but when I agreed, her eyes started darting around, so I figured she’d actually been hoping I’d turn her down.
A woman’s appearance or social status doesn’t have much to do with it. A successful full-time model might ask for 4, while a college student whose only notable feature is having a lot of pubic hair might demand 10.
Of course, the more money a woman gets, the happier she’ll probably be. But men have their own values and financial circumstances, and an allowance isn’t a measure of a woman’s worth. It’s simply true that men value women who are willing to meet under terms they can comfortably afford. On the other hand, if a woman’s priority is making money, the adult entertainment industry is overwhelmingly more efficient, isn’t it? So the question is, why choose this instead?
If you’re able to make things work with an average of 8, then that’s perfectly fine. Set your expectations according to your own values, find people who are compatible, and enjoy yourselves.
I think the real winners are the people who manage to build a fun relationship that lasts—not the ones who get the highest allowance.
Taro
Whether you’re looking at it from the man’s side or the woman’s side, the allowance can vary greatly depending on the person.
From a woman’s perspective, you wouldn’t offer 30,000 or 40,000 yen to someone you couldn’t even share a bowl of ramen or take a bite of the same food with.
