I’m the person who asked what kind of explanation the club gives men about the nature of the relationship.
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I’m very sorry.
When I first asked my question here:
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/15456
my wording was poor, and I didn’t get much of an answer to the question at the end. I intended to narrow down my message and ask specifically for a response from the staff, but after receiving the reply, I became discouraged and deleted too much of what I had written.
I sincerely apologize to the staff for asking a question that made me seem like a spy.
Since single men often tell me that they genuinely want to become boyfriend and girlfriend, I wanted to understand what men think about these relationships. I assumed this would differ from ordinary dating apps or matchmaking agencies, so I wanted to know what the understanding is supposed to be when a relationship begins.
From the response I received, I realized that if I can’t explain the terms myself clearly—or feel that it’s too difficult to say—then this probably isn’t suitable for me.
I’m sorry this wasn’t really a question.
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂30s👑Universe female member
This is the explanation given by the club. You can probably get a better idea by checking the Universe Club website and reading the information for male members.
The transportation allowance for the first date is clearly stated, but there is no specific mention of an allowance for any relationship afterward.
Since it’s a matter of free dating, the club’s stance is that the two people should see each other based on mutual agreement.
So there’s nothing strange about a man wanting to pursue a serious boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
Conversely, there’s also nothing unusual about a woman wanting an allowance for dinner only (no intimacy).
That said, both types of people are somewhat out of place in the club scene, so I get the impression that things often don’t work out smoothly for them...
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> Your response made me realize that if I can’t clearly explain it myself and feel uncomfortable bringing it up, then I’m probably not suited for this.
I actually think women like that are better suited for it.
They’re likely to be more popular, too.
Being able to openly say that you’re looking for a transactional relationship can also work in your favor. That said, it’s really hard to say how direct you need to be.
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It goes without saying that this is an allowance-based relationship.
I sometimes see this mentioned in date reviews, but guys who try to pay afterward are almost always a person to avoid.
Just a random aside, but that parody manga about papa-katsu in the style of Chiikawa on Twitter is pretty funny. Search for @yamada_o3.
https://twitter.com/yamada_o3/media
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