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Jun 4, 2023 14:54
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I’m registered as B2.
I occasionally get added to favorites, so I send a “You seem lovely” message in return, but so far I haven’t received any offers.
I’m not sure what my rank is, but should I just be patient and wait?
6 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s a class, not a rank.
Even if you find out what class you’re in, there isn’t really anything you can do about it.
In fact, being placed in a lower class may even increase your chances of receiving offers.
For now, all you can do is try everything possible and wait. However, if you haven’t received any offers after three months, you probably won’t receive many going forward.
Your next opportunity will be when you have new photos taken, so I think it’s important to pay attention to both the photos and what’s written in your profile at that time.
If you want offers, decide what kind of papa (male supporter) you want to target—for example, men in their 40s–50s or 50s–60s. Before then, research the hairstyles, makeup, clothing, overall vibe, and profile comments that appeal to them, and work on improving yourself as well.
Also, if you really want offers and are genuinely prepared for an adult relationship (intimate), changing your dating type to C might bring you some offers.
It’s not guaranteed, of course, but trying it should improve your chances compared with doing nothing.
Prepare thoroughly before your next photo session and give it your best.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Why not try changing your profile to B1 (or possibly C type)?
A woman I support is getting offers even as a B1. In a previous answer, I mentioned B2 because I thought she might not know about it, but she correctly chose B1. Apparently, for men who make offers to B-type women, B1 isn’t actually a bad option.
If things progress smoothly after meeting, especially by the second date, I don’t think the other person would feel too negatively about it.
It may be difficult unless you change your type or have your photos retaken.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
If it’s been a month and you still haven’t received any offers, I think you should try everything you can.
Generally, the first month is when you get the most offers, and they drop off significantly after that.
I don’t know what the reason might be, but for example, even if you select B2, the staff may write something like, “She’s B2, but probably closer to A,” if they feel you’re unlikely to go beyond dinner.
In that case, you won’t get any offers unless you’re attractive enough for a man to want to meet you even if it’s dinner only.
That said, they won’t tell you what the staff actually wrote about you, so as possible measures, you could:
- Change your relationship type (though you don’t have to force yourself to do so; choosing a type you can’t realistically follow through with may lead to complaints after the date)
- Write how you currently feel in your comments
If you have a good personality, you may also be registered in a class one level above what your appearance alone would warrant. Since men mainly make offers based on looks, this can also result in you not receiving any offers.
Why not message the staff on LINE and ask, “I’d like to receive some offers. Is there anything I can do?”
It’ll probably be a template response, but they might quietly move you down a class.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Basically, all you can do is be patient and wait.
Men have their own timing, too.
I have about 15 women saved as favorites, but I’m happy with my current partner, so I haven’t made an offer in six months.
I occasionally receive messages saying, “You’re lovely,” along with a comment, but I just leave them unanswered, thinking that now isn’t the right time to make an offer.
At the moment, I’m considering making an offer to someone this summer for the first time in a while.
If people have added you to their favorites, I think you’ll eventually receive an offer.
More importantly, be sure to value the opportunity when an offer does come your way!
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you write something like, “I really need an offer financially—I haven’t gotten a single offer,” you might receive an offer from someone who likes being first.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think the only things you can do are send “You look lovely,” write a comment, and upload a photo.
Whether you should wait or not is for you to decide. I don’t think it’s something other people have any business telling you.