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Jun 3, 2023 21:26
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The papa I’m seeing often tells me, “You have such a beautiful figure—it looks like something you’d see in the Louvre.”
But when I searched online, I found mostly sculptures of voluptuous, full-figured women, and it really brought me down.
I’m 167 cm tall, 49 kg, and an F cup. I’ve always been somewhat confident about my figure, and my previous papas also complimented me, saying I really had a great body. So I want to take it as a compliment, but when I look at the images of those artworks, I feel shocked, thinking, “So this is how he sees me…” 😭
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Age: 50s
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Maybe you don’t need to worry about it.
Try taking it as if he meant you looked artistically beautiful—like the Venus de Milo, one of the world’s greatest masterpieces.
Your papa doesn’t seem to have meant any harm, and if he’s easy to communicate with rather than strict, you could show him the photo and say with a laugh:
“I thought that was a compliment, but everyone in it is so curvy. Is that really how you see me? I’m shocked!”
He’d probably quickly say, “No, no, that’s not what I meant,” and it could turn into a funny story or a good conversation starter.
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Does the Louvre really have that many paintings of women? It’s so huge that I didn’t get to see everything, so I don’t remember having that impression.
I think the intended meaning was probably that she has such artistic balance that it wouldn’t be out of place for her to be part of a collection in an incredible museum like the Louvre.
As Joe suggests, I think you should let him take you there and see for yourself. If he’s taking you sightseeing anyway, the Palace of Versailles would be nice too.
And if you have plenty of time, Mont-Saint-Michel as well… Though it is a bit far.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
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She wasn’t fat, but I did think she was a little lacking in intelligence.
The definition of beauty changes with the times.
Apparently, due to the instinct to propagate, men tend to prefer women who are healthy and slightly curvy.
Well, if it was meant negatively, perhaps they were saying she had a more striking physical beauty.
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Age: 60s
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Have that papa take you to Paris. Then you’ll realize that the questioner simply has the wrong idea. You have to see it with your own eyes.
Please have more confidence in yourself.
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At 167 cm and 49 kg with an F-cup bust, you’re definitely not overweight.
Maybe they meant that you have the relaxed, model-like vibe of a curvier model?