I understand that the first meeting is supposed to be about four hours, so I’d like to part ways around 10:30 p.m. and request a meeting time of 5 p.m., or 6 p.m. at the latest.
When the papa drinks, dinner tends to run long, and I end up being invited to his room sometime after 8 or 9 p.m. Sometimes I spend four hours eating and drinking only to part ways, and even when he says he’ll let me go home early, once we go to his room, I often end up barely catching the last train home.
If it ends up being dinner only, is it okay to part ways after about two hours even as a Type C? And if we decide partway through that it will be dinner only, am I still expected to spend the full four hours with him?
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When discussing the offer, it’s fine to say something like, “I need to be home by ___,” or “I have plans after our date, so I’ll need to leave by ___.”
Women who clearly seem to be trying to cut the time short, who are overly concerned about the clock, or who keep talking about money and their allowance are a total turnoff for men, lol. Since it’s not enjoyable, they’ll likely decide not to make an offer or continue the arrangement.
Of course, I’m mindful of aiming for around four hours because I don’t want to be disliked.
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Originally, the arrangement was to keep four hours open: two hours for dinner and two hours for an adult relationship (intimate).
So if you’re only doing dinner, around the two-hour mark—or once the meal is over—you could ask something like, “What are you planning to do after this?” If his answer makes it seem like he isn’t going to invite you to a hotel, I think it would be best to wrap things up smoothly.
However, if you say you have somewhere else to be, the man may complain to the club, saying, “She hadn’t kept the full four hours open, even though I was planning to invite her to a hotel.”
So even if you did keep the time open, it might be better to steer things toward ending by saying something like, “I’m already full,” or “I’m not good at drinking.”
You could also ask directly, “Aren’t we going to a hotel?” But some men may be put off by that, so I think it’s better to be careful.
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It’s possible, but if you’re going to be constantly watching the clock, I don’t think an exclusive dating club is the right fit for you.
Do you actually want to enjoy the relationship as well?
Or are you approaching it more like a job?
I think you should take some time to think it over carefully.
Also, setting the meeting time for around 7 p.m. might work well. That way, dinner doesn’t have to drag on, and you could still get to the room at around the same time. You might even be able to wrap things up in the 10 p.m. hour—while still being sober enough to do so.
It may be better to date a man who is considerate in that way. Being mindful of and respecting each other’s time is a very important part of any relationship.
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If it’s dinner only, it’s perfectly fine to say goodbye after two hours, even with a C-level allowance.
However, if the man doesn’t understand the rules, he may invite you to a bar or karaoke after dinner.
How you respond is up to you, since it falls under “free dating.”
Personally, I think the option that would cause you the least trouble is to go along with it in the moment, then give him a lower rating in the feedback afterward.
It’s a way of letting someone you don’t plan to see again leave on good terms.
For example, if you negotiate afterward by saying something like, “If you want to go to karaoke, it’ll be ¥〇〇, since anything after dinner is free dating,” he might still leave you a bad review in the feedback—even if you technically haven’t broken any rules.
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