Tips May 28, 2023 07:35

I currently have eight women I met through dating clubs and papa-katsu sites. At first, I never introduced them to one another, but a few years ago I had the opportunity to meet with two of them at the same time. When I said I wanted to try a threesome just once, they readily agreed. The other day, I experienced a foursome, and today I’m scheduled to have a six-person encounter (in every case, it’s me—the only man—with multiple women).

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Surprisingly, seven of the eight women said they were interested in group play with one man and multiple women and wanted to participate. That’s how it progressed to six people. A nine-person encounter may even be possible. Honestly, it’s enough to make me hesitate. All of them are serious women who don’t have boyfriends—or any lovers besides me. I’m an obstetrician-gynecologist, so I take precautions against STIs and try not to become involved with anyone who is seeing other people (though there may be exceptions). Whenever we have group encounters, and if a relationship continues for a long time, we all take medication to treat STIs as a precaution. I don’t really understand how they feel. What do you think is going on?
👤 Asked by Guest 👨GenderMale 🎂 60s 👑 Member of another dating club
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
What exactly is the questioner feeling when they post here? I really don’t know. They invite someone to a threesome themselves, then back off once she agrees? If the allowance is good, wouldn’t she come? Wouldn’t she also agree to the group play? And since the questioner offers a generous allowance, wouldn’t all the women say they don’t have another papa or boyfriend—whether that’s true or not?
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だて◎ゆめ
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>Believe it or not, seven of the eight women said they were interested in and wanted to participate in a one-man, multiple-women encounter. That’s how it turned into a six-way. It looks like a nine-way might even be possible. It’s enough to make me back off myself. ↑ Wow, that sounds like fun(笑) Take care of yourselves and enjoy it(笑) >All of them are serious women who have no boyfriends or lovers other than me. I’m an OB-GYN, so I’m careful about sexually transmitted infections, and I avoid getting involved with anyone who also sees other people (though there may be exceptions). Of course, whenever we have a group encounter—and if the relationship continues for a long time—we all take medication to treat STIs. ↑ That’s something I’m especially careful about too. So while I’m sure group encounters can be fun, they can cause problems for everyone involved. And since the women I’m seeing are still young and have their whole futures ahead of them, I choose not to do it(笑) Be very careful about “accidental” exposure and enjoy yourselves(笑) I imagine they’re moving toward multiple relationships partly because it’s unusual and partly out of curiosity because it sounds fun. But when people are having the most fun, they often fail to notice the pitfalls. I think it’s best for everyone to look out for one another as they go along.
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いっつ・みぃ
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Other
Thanks for sharing your activity report. This is less a question than a suggestion, but if you could turn it into more of a story, it would be worth sharing as a blog post or column. As for the answer to your question: I think the women’s mindset—or their current situation—is that they’re properly fulfilling their role as papa-katsu girls while staying within the rules of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). It’s me.
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You again… If you want to know how she feels, I think you should just ask her directly.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
There’s no need to speculate about their feelings. All we can tell from this is that the women decided they were willing to have a group encounter if they received an allowance. Group encounters aren’t particularly unusual. Even among the male members I know, I could name quite a few—including myself—who sometimes participate in them. I also don’t think whether someone is serious has anything to do with whether they participate in group encounters. That said, judging from the way you describe yourself as a doctor while referring to things like STI medication, you come across as rather insincere and dishonest.
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