Tips May 26, 2023 20:13

I was just thinking that cute girls and handsome guys—those with celebrity-level looks—may have an advantage, but in the long run, they might actually lose out.

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The reason is that everyone fawns over them, and they can end up growing older without developing much substance. There’s a saying that even a beautiful woman becomes boring after three days. No one ever compliments me on anything except my looks. Lately, I’ve been feeling empty. What do people compliment you on most often?
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Maybe you should try working on things that people can compliment you on besides your looks. You already have the advantage of being good-looking, so— Good-looking, yet considerate Good-looking, yet kind Good-looking, yet funny Good-looking, yet good in bed I think those added qualities could become even more strengths that people appreciate.
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ジョー・ルビコン
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入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
It doesn’t even take me three days to get tired of a beautiful woman. In my case, it takes 30 minutes.
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
Paper Airplane, “ I wonder what happens to handsome guys? Do they become less attractive as they get older, or do they keep being popular? Which is it? I have no idea.” ↑ I haven’t changed much since I was young(笑) Back then, even older women would tell me how cute I was. Now I can still get attention from younger women. We look perfect together! Wait! Is Date actually handsome?(笑)
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Recently, the compliment that made me happiest was, “Your hands are so smooth” (or maybe they said “so soft and silky”?). Regardless of papa-katsu, people often tell me, “Your skin is incredibly beautiful and smooth. What kind of skincare do you do? Tell me.” But no one had commented on my hands for a long time (although back in the day, I could’ve passed as a hand model…), so it made me pretty happy. I’m not good-looking, so until around 30, I envied handsome, good-looking guys. But after turning 30, I started thinking that being the way I am is actually better. Handsome guys probably have women they’re not interested in coming after them, which must be troublesome. I can simply approach the woman I’m interested in, and it also felt good to gradually become more popular as I got older. (I wonder what it’s like for handsome guys? Do they become less popular with age, or do they keep getting more popular? I have no idea.) I think your real life will begin after you turn 30, too.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
When someone compliments you, you lose—the person giving the compliment wins. If you get complimented, act frustrated and say, “You got me this time. Next time, I’m definitely going to be the one complimenting you!” I’m being serious.
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シアトル
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m often complimented on being humble for someone so wealthy. It’s great that you noticed that, questioner. By all means, save as much as you can while you’re young.
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