I introduced a friend who was having financial difficulties to Universe. Since I used FRAIN, I know her class, and it’s by no means a high one—probably the same as mine. I’ve been registered for four months and have received around three offers, including letters. Meanwhile, in just two months, my friend has received about 20 offers, and apparently most of the men have asked to see her long-term.

Hello! Staff member Kosaka here as well! Just as many women are looking to meet wealthy men they wouldn’t normally have the chance to meet, I feel that many men are also looking to meet people they wouldn’t typically encounter in their everyday lives. Some may want to meet someone in the entertainment industry, someone who studied abroad and speaks fluent English, or someone who has traveled all over the world. Everyone has different preferences and needs. I think there are still things you can do starting now, so why not build up your experiences? (*^^*)

>Apparently, she herself doesn’t really know what the key to her success is. I think it may simply be her personality, but this is specifically about the part where she says: “Apparently, most people have asked to keep seeing me long-term.” If a woman turns out to be a genuinely nice person when you meet her, it’s only natural to want to keep seeing her long-term. The fact that she thinks, “Everyone I meet is wonderful and kind. I’m truly grateful they introduced me to such great people!” already makes her seem like a lovely person. Not everyone is wonderful. At least 20% of people are probably strange in some way. But even when someone is like that, if she can find their good qualities, appreciate them, and overlook the bad parts, then I think that woman must be pretty remarkable. >She received around 20 offers in two months. As for this, even if she was technically in the same class as you, from the men’s perspective, it’s probably like having a woman who belongs in the class above show up in this one. Maybe it’s what you’d call “lucky Gold”? When men think, “Why is someone this beautiful in this class?”—which, conversely, means the staff may have placed her in the wrong class—offers come flooding in. I also think this tends to happen when the woman herself has a good personality. The staff may feel like they want to send lots of offers her way, so they might place someone who seems Platinum in Gold, or someone who seems Black in Platinum. Occasionally, people who want to move up to a higher class appear in the Q&A box, but that’s more a matter of personal pride. When it comes to the number of offers, being placed in a lower class actually brings in more offers. (Except for Standard.) Even in a lower class, Black-class men may still send offers. So unless the woman is overwhelmed by the number of offers, being in the class below is generally more advantageous when it comes strictly to offer volume. >・What are the qualities of women who attract men even without a high rank? Personality. People with good personalities are fun to talk to, and make you want to see them again. At the very least, if someone can put on a perfect act when meeting others, they’ll come across as having a good personality. A perfect act is difficult to maintain because people eventually slip up, so their true personality is what really matters. They may be found out during the interview or by a man during a date. That said, I sometimes wonder whether there aren’t quite a few women who are able to put on a perfect performance. >・What are the qualities of women men think, “I want to see her again”? The same as above. >・What are the qualities of people who are doing well and receiving lots of offers, from the staff’s perspective? When it comes to offers, they’re determined almost entirely by appearance, occupation, and similar factors. People who do well also tend to have personalities that make them well-liked by the staff. I think it’s great when someone considers what they may be doing wrong and tries to improve. Keep up the good work.

I’m with Fuu! It’s okay if you don’t get many offers. The most important thing is building a good relationship with the men you meet. If you can keep things going, you’ll receive regular, safe, and reliable offers. Don’t focus on the number of offers—focus on their quality.

Having three offers is pretty decent to begin with. Even women in the Standard or Gold class seem to get quite a few offers. Your friend sounds incredible. She must have something that makes papas like her. I imagine she’s probably: - Fairly ordinary-looking - Refined and youthful-looking - In great shape, with a large bust and beautiful legs Twenty offers means she’s extremely popular. Personally, the women I want to see again are those who: - Are great in bed and shy but proactive - Don’t resist what I want during intimacy - Are friendly, pleasant, and charming to talk to - Don’t try to cut meetings short and fulfill my need for validation - Aren’t overly focused on money The fact that your friend says “they’re all nice people” already shows that she has a good personality. When a woman is happy to see you, papas naturally want to keep seeing her.

After all, your photos and profile are the most important things. Are you showing up late or acting unfriendly at interviews? Do you have flashy hair, elaborate nails, or more than two piercings? Saying “I hate old men” is a deal-breaker. If you want to make changes right away, dye your hair black, upload some private photos, and write a comment that shows you’re motivated. If you’re in a hurry to make money, though, and you’ve set yourself as A/B1, you need to be prepared to accept B2 or higher.

First, stop reading the question box. Then, try to act cheerful and be your authentic self without worrying too much about everything. Other people’s behavior is a reflection of you. Whether everyone you meet turns out to be a good person depends on you—women and men alike. If you’re always complaining, things that give you something to complain about will keep happening. If you’re happy and appreciative, happy things will keep happening. For the most part, anyway. It’s like how you naturally want to give candy to the children who are happy to receive it. Generally speaking, the way you’ve lived your life shows in your facial expressions, voice, and manner of speaking—whether it’s calmness and kindness, or the opposite.

It’s not about rank, but class. It may be a chicken-and-egg kind of thing, but I think it all comes down to this: “Everyone I meet is wonderful and kind, and I’m truly grateful for the introductions!” Meeting women who are genuinely enjoying themselves is fun for me too, so I want to see them again. On the other hand, women who are thinking things like, “Why am I having sex with some old guy I don’t even like?”—as someone asked in a recent question—tend to let those feelings show in their attitude. They’re not much fun to be around, so I don’t feel like meeting them again. In short, positive people can get into a positive spiral, while those who aren’t may either see nothing happen or fall into a negative spiral. Since this is about men and women meeting each other, even if you haven’t found the right person yet, you may happen to meet someone you really click with in the future. When that opportunity comes, it’s important to stay positive and not put up unnecessary barriers so you can make the most of it.