Which do men tend to prefer: long hair (a wig) or short hair (my natural hair)?

Personally, I’d say I prefer short hair. Long hair is kind of the trend—or rather, the norm—at dating clubs, and the women I meet there usually have long hair too, haha. That said, I’d never choose someone to date based on their hairstyle, so either is fine with me.

If you style a wig well, it can look great, but if it’s put on poorly, it can be very obvious and make people wonder, “Why is she wearing a wig?” I get the impression that many men at Universe prefer to judge women as they really are. So if you currently have short hair, I think it would be better to simply have your photos retaken, especially when you consider what happens after you meet. You could ask the staff to keep one of your old long-hair photos as well. You could also mention a few times that, “I have short hair now, but I cut it shorter than I meant to. I actually wanted it around medium length.” The staff may then include that background in their comments even without you asking. And even if they don’t, you can write it in your own comment. That way, a man might think, “She has short hair now, but her long-hair photos are pretty nice too,” and still be interested in making an offer.

As for whether it’s a wig or natural hair, honestly, I don’t think it matters either way. There was once a prominent figure in the industry whom everyone involved confidently believed wore a wig, but it never caused him to lose his position. In reality, you can’t exactly reach out and touch someone’s head to check, so if they simply act as though, “What? This grows directly from my scalp,” there’s really nothing more you can say. Historically, wigs have therefore always triumphed in the public eye, allowing talented bald men to play an active role, while behind the scenes—where no one could say it to their face—industry insiders would enjoy discussing the topic over endless drinks, giving the economy a boost through their combined power. Getting back to the main point, if I had to say what you should choose, it would clearly be long black hair. The classic look for a dating club is the refined, ladylike type, and that means long black hair. Unless you’re particularly trying to make a statement, why not just wear a wig or whatever and go with long black hair? People say it’ll be obvious if someone touches it, but surely that only happens once you’ve become quite close, doesn’t it? During intimate moments, I may touch a woman’s chest, but not her hair. If her hair isn’t tied back, it gets in the way during certain activities, so in my experience, my, er, lower half probably touches a woman’s hair before my hands do. And I’ve never once detected a wig that way. So even if a relationship begins, I think you can safely assume there won’t be any need to worry about the wig being discovered for the time being. I hope this helps. And I apologize to any men who wear wigs for using so many potentially sensitive expressions. Taro