Recently, one of my dinner-only papa (male supporters) has started inviting me back to his place after our meals.

Question

The allowance I usually receive is 9, which isn’t extremely low, but another papa I have an adult relationship (intimate) with gives me a two-digit amount—more than three times as much. So I feel hesitant about accepting the dinner-only papa’s offer. However, it’s difficult to bring up my other papas with him. He’s a good person, and I’d like to continue seeing him. But if I can’t have an adult relationship (intimate) with him for the current allowance, what should I say or do?

Answer 1

For an adult relationship (intimate), I think it’s fine to say something like, “I’d like an allowance of 30.” When bringing up your desired allowance, there’s no need to say that other papas give you that amount. Just state the amount you want. I don’t see any problem with that.

Answer 2

Paying 90,000 yen per pay-per-meeting for dinner only? Isn’t that guy an idiot? Nice made-up story.

Answer 3

If you’re not open to an adult relationship (intimate), I think the men will eventually move on. Rather than focusing only on the allowance, look for someone you can build a long-term relationship with. Turning someone down takes quite a bit of energy, I think, and it can also become stressful for you.

Answer 4

An exclusive dating club is based on contractual arrangements, so you can simply say it outright without hesitation. As a papa (a male supporter), he’ll probably just accept that the arrangement didn’t work out and move on. There’s no need to worry.

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