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May 19, 2023 16:53
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I imagine that ending things can be different in a regular romantic relationship than in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Based on your experiences, I’d really appreciate hearing what prompted you to consider ending a relationship and how you actually went about saying goodbye, for reference.
I’m a papa-katsu girl who’s been unsure whether to end things with a papa (a male supporter) I’ve been seeing for several months.
3 answers
👨 Male
Universe member
In my case, once I start seeing someone, I plan to continue until she tells me, “I want to end the arrangement.”
No one has said that to me yet, so I haven’t ended anything. But if she did, I would respect her wishes and end it.
She’s a wonderful woman, but I understand that she has her own circumstances, and I assume there will always be someone else to take her place, so I don’t take it too hard.
Also, she has told me that even if our adult relationship (intimate) ends, she would like to continue our relationship as an older man and a younger woman. So if she invites me, I think I would continue taking her out for meals at my expense—dinner only (no allowance).
I understand that at dating clubs, it’s common to refuse any further arrangements or block communication on LINE. But in my opinion, it’s perfectly fine to simply tell her honestly, “I want to end things.”
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If someone hasn’t replied to my LINE for 24 hours, I might end things for that reason alone. I’m not bombarding them with tons of messages or anything.
People who are slow to reply usually have a whole bunch of other guys.
If we’ve been together for a long time and I’m the one ending things, I think I’d give her a lump sum of money.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
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